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how does one break the idea to the spouse/gf? long game seems to be the common answer, but i was wondering if anyone else had experiences/advice that can be given
i started to role play with her. in the beginning it was innocent scenarios. i would say to her just imagine we are on a lonely beach now while we where making love.
Just ask if she thinks she would enjoy sex with another guy..tell her it turns you on..only way to find out what she thinks of the idea..she might answer ‘yes, I do enjoy sex with other guys’..wouldn’t be the first cuck relationship that started by finding out that she was al ready having sex..if she is hesitant or repulsed then long term it is..if she is curious and wants to talk about it then itls just a matter of finding the right guy..old bf, ex..co worker or a friend of yours that turns her head?
Yes we started with role play. There was a guy at her work who obviously fancied her and I teased her about it. Then we role played a scene where I (as him) picked her up and persuaded her to have sex. She was saying Oh i can’t I’m married and I was saying He’ll never find out it’s just a bit of fun. And she was really getting into it she wanted to believe I was him. It was just planting the idea that it’s ok to have sex with someone else. Then I told her how excited that made me too. We developed that idea and she came up with the line You’re so much better than my husband. It was natural then for her to flirt with a man when I was there and pretending not to notice and then talking about it afterwards. She accepted the first date she got. It was just a date no sex but it broke the ground.