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    • May 23, 2017 at 5:49 am #18132
      Mark

        Hello,

        A little unsure on the best place to post this. I’ve spent most of the morning looking over the postings on the website. It’s been utterly fascinating so I want to thank you all for sharing and educating.

        I came to this website with a genuine intrigue, but I’m posting as I work for a documentary production company in the UK – bigdealfilms.com/ – I’ve been pushing the idea that we should make a documentary exploring the world of cucks and bulls. I understand if people won’t want to show their faces and it wouldn’t be necessary if anyone wanted to get involved with the project. I’m happy to have them covered with masks.

        But before we get to that state I was hopeful that some cucks, bulls & hotwives would be willing to have a chat with me. We’re looking at focussing the doc in the UK right now, but if anyone would be happy to have an email correspondence at first, please fire a message off to mark@bigdealfilms.com .

        I want this doc to capture the psychology of cuckolding. I think it would be good to get a proper account of this out into the mainstream and I know our company has the heritage to deal with complex issues.

        Hopefully I hear from some of you.

        Many thanks,
        Mark

      • May 23, 2017 at 2:53 pm #18137
        Cathy & Jerry
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          Too bad it’s being done in the UK, I bet you’d be inundated with people wanting to help out here in Canada or the US. 🙂

        • May 24, 2017 at 10:00 am #18152
          Luvr
          Keymaster

            @markbigdeal Welcome to our community. I began this site – and my journey to understand what it was that made this lifestyle tick twenty years ago – not long after getting my start in this experience.

            Unlike most of the ‘cuckold’ or ‘hotwife’ sites that have popped up over the years to monetize and profit from the lifestyle without any real understanding of it, this community has a strong focus on the confluence of reality and fantasy and what motivates and rewards those involved in this experience.

            You’re not the first to seek members of our community for a project, but I do welcome any exposure that seeks to understand and promote rather than simply leer and profit from it.

            I am not UK based, but I am uniquely positioned to help you understand and appreciate, from an intellectual standpoint, why this lifestyle is actually better for humanity and more natural for us than the one we are told to live. Feel free to contact me directly through the site or by email.

            Best of luck on your project.

          • May 26, 2017 at 6:45 am #18167
            Mark

              Luvr, Cathy & Jenny, thank you all for your postings. It’s really great to hear back from you both. As we move forward with this project we may end up branching out of the UK and taking a more international approach to the project, so I’d be happy to hear more about either of you if you might be interested in being involved if we take this to North America/internationally.

              @Luvr I wanted to know how you put the postings from other people together? Do people just get in touch with you and then you post write-ups following emails? From what I took from reading a whole host of them I got the impression that maybe you’re skyping or calling them and offering support in the inevitable anxieties and concerns that I can imagine coming as one pursues this lifestyle.

              I’d really love to hear more about how you got into it, your first time, what brought you in and how you grew to run such an educational website.

              I was particularly interested in the story of Tightknots – http://cuckoldmarriage.info/2016/06/tightknots-rewarded/ – in the link I just posted it looks as if the couple are UK based with all those cows and rolling hills. I’d love to get the chance to have a chat with either of them if possible, their story had me completely captivated. If there was any chance they might be interested in being involved with our project we’d be able to approach it in such a way that would protect their identities.

              Other than that I’ve been intrigued by the whole Queen of Spades subculture within cuckold marriages, and also a few postings describing ‘feeding’ the bulls cocks to their cuckolds. How common is this kind of practice and the whole bi/homosexual element within cuckolds? Of course everyone’s different, but I can appreciate that it adds to the humiliation of the cuck and the utter dominance of the bull.

              With Queens of Spades is this more of a US trend and how much of a niche do you feel it is within the culture? A quick look on porn sites and just contemporary culture seems to put a lot more prevalence on the whole mandingo, black bull idea.

              Many thanks for all of your time. Really amazing getting to know more about all of this.

              Best,
              Mark

            • May 28, 2017 at 10:34 am #18174
              Anonymous

                The Queen of Spades subculture is alive and thriving here in the UK but we aren’t into humiliation and hubby isn’t bi.

              • June 2, 2017 at 6:55 am #18257
                Mark

                  Hey @hooked that’s great, I’ve started to notice it a lot more since I’ve realised what to search. Do you think you’d be interested in speaking to me? Would be great if you could send me an email at mark@bigdealfilms.com

                  Also @Luvr would be great to hear from you regarding my last posting.

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