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    • UK-Asian-cuck
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        Has anyone gotten into this and then after a while, the wife stepped back and didn’t want to anymore?

        My wife and I are a Muslim couple in the UK, we have 3 kids and my wife got into this a few years ago. She was really into it, chatted to a bunch of guys online and cammed with a few, met up with 3 guys and was seeing one guy for just over a year. But he didn’t give her the emotional loving and aftercare she wanted so she ended it(he was amaazing in bed though).

        I’ve spoken to her about getting back into it but she’s turned more religious and she doesn’t want to go down that path again.

        Anyone had a similar situation where toes were dipped in and then she backed off because she didn’t get what she wanted?

      • Cathy & Jerry
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          Yes, Cathy did this so I didn’t push it, after about a year and a half she decided to try it again one more time and chatted with a fellow who made her feel sexy again. They met and sparks were lit and they started having an affair which I was so happy to know about. They soon fell in love and have been seeing each other for over 7 years and she cut me off 5 years ago so her lover would be the only man allowed inside of her.

          • UK-Asian-cuck
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              So there is hope…..! My wife gets excited watching romantic dramas, especially the ones with soft porn. And the guy she slept with still messages her from time to time but she wanted him to treat her better than he did.

              • Cathy & Jerry
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                  Yes there is hope for sure. Every once in awhile tell her that she should explain this to him, tell him that she would love to have an affair with him again but that she needs for him to step up to the plate better than he did previously. If he’s still in touch with her then that means that he still wants her, now he needs to “prove it”.

            • HubbyJohn
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                Regardless if she ever acts on it again I don’t feel like there is any going backwards. Just because she hasn’t had sex with another man in over a year and there is no plan to in the near future I am still a cuck to her. That seal was broken and can’t be fixed… or maybe that is mostly in my head, but I feel it.

              • joe and lola
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                  We went away from the fun bus for 8 years. But after the cuckolding had happened that first time, you can’t go back. Returning a few years ago, the experience feels like we have managed our expectations properly comprehending the role we have.
                  Its now deeper and so more fulfilling a life that is for sure.

                  But. Once a cuck, always…

                  stay safe peeps

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