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Mistress C.
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Mistress C
Lots of young people enjoy cuckolding, but this is really something the older generation indulged in and made popular in the past few decades.
Though its a fun and fulfilling lifestyle, it also is one that can continue to reap rewards as you get older.
My husband, god bless him, has always taken care of my sexual needs in life, but as he got older (60’s) it got harder to get hard, blue pills not withstanding. So cuckolding morphed for us, we always enjoyed it throughout our lives, but now we customized it for our needs today. I have always employed Femdom into all our sexual play, and still do so to this day, so as time went on, I took away his need to worry about getting an erection simply by employing chastity devices, which he is not fond of, but its not up to him, is it ?
As part of this morphing, I have made him more compliant, and taught him to cater to and obey my lover as well as myself. More humiliation both mental and physical, and found him more open to things he never wanted to do in the past. And if he is a good boy and serves well during play, I may reward him by taking off his chastity device and allow him to masturbate onto my foot and clean it up. I rarely let him inside of me these days, and like to keep him on edge.
With all this virus stuff going on, its natural to be very picky with whom I indulge with, but hopefully soon I can enjoy much more of what I want to enjoy in this lifestyle, and always warn my husband if I find the right person, he may be relegated to the guest room and lose his spot in my bed..that thought keeps him perked up.
So cuckolding can really be a benefit to older couples -
Dafydd
WHen you say “cater to and obey [your] lover”, could you expand a bit as to what he has to do? Does he fluff you lover, rim him, etc?
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Mistress C
Cater to: as in if my lover wants a drink, he fetches it, I am not fond of bi activities, for some its required, but for us I will just have him stroke the bull, or guide him into me. If there is a break in play, he gets warm wash cloths for us and cleans us. Afterwards he takes the condoms off them and disposes them.
He licks me and all the love juices.
No fluffing unless its an off the hook encounter -
Dafydd
Thank you for clarifying!
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Mistress C
Bottom line is he must obey the lover as he would me. I have final say on all thats asked of him, but his job is to be my submissive and submissive to whomever I designate. It does not have to be in a sexual way. He could be, for instance, our house boy/servant/go-fer
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allistan
Just playing with chastity myself…hoping to give her more control..actually hoping it will give her the idea that she can take more control..at the very least, lack of penatrative sex with her or the ability to ejaculate will make you a much more attentive husband…if nothing else, you will constantly think about her and how you can please her..we do not do the punishment/reward though..
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Mistress C
Luigi…chastity is something I do as I feel the situation warrants, and more of a play between us of control. He is never allowed to have an erection during a cuckolding because its not about his sexual pleasures.
Many times I do not use chastity, instead I will tie up his genitals with rope or a pretty ribbon for my amusement.
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