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Luvinsunshine
Do any of you assist your wife with date preparation? Do you bathe her and get her clothes ready for her?
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Cathy & Jerry
My cucky bathes me and helps me dress for my dates every time, he selects what he thinks my boyfriend would love (he buys me sexy clothing quite often so it’s usually something new he selects). As he’s pulling my panties up he almost always kisses my pussy and says “come home full”! LOL When my boyfriend arrives he greets him with a beer and we chat for a bit. On our way out he kisses me then takes my hand and puts it into my bf’s hand and thanks him for taking good care of me! He’s a good cucky! My boyfriend expects this now because it’s become routine, but he never gets tired of it lol.
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onthesidekines
Sounds like a good routine.
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Luvinsunshine
Ok so Hubby isn’t they only one. On Thursday my BF called and wanted to take me out Saturday Night. So Saturday afternoon hubby told me he would help me get ready. We got into the bath tub and he shaved me and my legs. When we got out he lotioned my legs and body then picked out my heels and dress while I did my hair and makeup. He knelt down and put my heels on and anklet. He put my bellybutton ring in along with my earrings and necklace. He slipped my wedding ring on and we kissed and made out for a couple of minutes. He then held my dress while I stepped into it and zipped me up. He kissed my neck knowing this would get me excited but I told him no until I got back. He told me getting me ready was extremely exciting for him. We met my BF at the front door when he arrived and I put my arms around both and made out with them a little. I kissed hubby good by and we left. Hubby told me that he wants to assist every time from now on. So I was wondering if this was common among our group?
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Athlete952
In my experience, it is very common. I consider it a win-win-win and encourage my couples to integrate it into their play, especially when it is new to them.
For the husbands, I think a huge part of the win is giving them an opportunity to feel involved and needed. It is easy for cucks to feel like third wheels and they struggle to understand their roles. Helping their wives get ready helps them get past that. Now they are playing an important active role. If she looks beautiful, she is going to feel sexy and her lover/bull will love it. They’re going to have even better sex and the cuck can be proud of his role in it.
For the wives, I think it helps reinforce their husband’s support. That’s really important, especially early in a relationship. It is one thing to hear him say that he wants this and supports it, but it is another to see him act out that support. Deeds are often better than words.
From the bull’s perspective, I think it is a great opportunity for me to develop and nurture the relationship between the cucks and I. Usually, in a side conversation/text thread, I will encourage the husbands to help them get their wives ready. I’ll give them some ideas on how to help (e.g., bathing, shaving, dressing, etc) and then some suggestions on what I like (e.g., matching bra and panty sets). After our sessions or dates, I will thank the cucks for their efforts and give them ideas for what to do the next time. They tend to love the feedback and encouragement, which gets them even more excited to help the next time. It also opens up communication on other topics, which is so crucial to developing a good bull-cuck relationship.
That’s a long way of saying it is a common aspect of the lifestyle and a wonderful one at that.
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beta_hubby30
Yes, it’s a beautiful intimate moment between a cuckold and his wife and I think many of us loves it.
I want my wife to look perfect to her Bull, the man who is going to please her deserves the best experience.
The date preparation for us may involve clothes and lingerie shopping, which we’ve done together or myself alone.
At home, I help her to shave, to bath and pick up the clothes and jewlery for her. Sometimes I’m free to choose, sometimes I’ve directions given by her or her Bull.
If the date will happen at home, I’ve tasks to prepare the place either: cleaning the room, changing sheets, sellecting a good wine.
If it’s somewhere else, I may have to drive her (or them).
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Luvinsunshine
This was my first alone date with my BF. Normally when we go out it’s the three of us. So it was a completely new experience for us to let him prep me that way. Hubby was so into it I think it will be our new normal.
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Cathy & Jerry
I love being pampered and prepared for my evening with my lover. My cucky loves to do it and explains that it’s a way of doing his part in the exciting sex and love making I will be having not too long after he’s kissed me at the door on my way out to my lover’s car. If this makes him happy then I’m all for it!
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mrdnrm
I always talk to the bull/lover before the date and ask him if there is anything in particular that he would like. Most “say surprise me” some say a specific top but all like mini skirts. So, I do the clothes shopping for what my wife will wear on the date with her lover. Note: I am always on the date with my wife and her lover but just in the back ground and as the chauffer. I always help my wife in the shower, I wash her and always shave her pussy. I dry her off and put lotion on most of her body. I lay out the clothes she will be wearing, most often its one of her blue jean or black mini skirts, sometimes her white one. Then the top, always one that is either see through or a very low cut plunging neck line. She never wears panties or a bra on her dates. Her lover must always have access to her private parts. She always wears a neckless but she picks that out and then I have to add th ekey to my chastity cage to it.
On her dates in public, she loves to flirt back and forth and be seduced in public, first by conversation then lightly touching her neck, and kissing her ears then have her lover lean in and whispers sweet things that turns her on. A gentleman who knows when to lightly run the back of his fingertips over her tender spots; her neck, her breast, her inner thighs, while being discrete enough but yet slightly exposing her breast or other private parts where someone else can get a slight glimpse of what’s going on. That sort of public display of affection that’s semi obvious enough to get others nearby to notice. To be slight enough to get others talking about it, for them to know her date is the man tonight and that the husband is just there to watch another man touching, exposing, and seducing his Hotwife.
See the look on other peoples face when at a bar or lounge when her lover reaches in and exposes her breast or he reaches under her skirt to grab her ass or even finger her pussy while I am stand with 5 or 6 feet of them. She always makes me stand back abit. I am just there to serve and watch, not touch or interrupt. It is such a thrill, that nervous excitement that rips through you is just awesome. This is how 90% of our date go down.
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mrdnrm
prefect photo from one of our date nights with meeting a Black Gentleman Lover
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kingtex
Not into humiliation, cages eat–but I want my wife fucked and owned for that moment in time–I have shaved her legs, pussy and prepped her on occasion. I want her lover to know he is getting the best and will want to give her the fucking she needs.Make love to all of her body, kiss, suck, touch–she is yours now, not mine, possess her mind and soul, and let me see it happen. She is over seventy now and if you can be hot she is.Now recovering from covid and pneumonia her body has suffered–would attach a pic but confused how
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Tackle
Date preparation is both sexually exciting and scary but, hey it’s what makes the LS exciting.
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onthesidekines
A couple of the ladies (yes Couple) love it when they stop by my place to be prepared for their dates. Everything thing shower save and nails.
However of late they have asked that their dates also stop by to be prepared for them. So showered shaved etc. sorry no nails with them. However i do install cock rings, ball rings etc.
Other things they all love is when i drive them to the restaurant for dinner. I always sit another table so they can have some private time. This is not to say they dont put on a vary discrete show for me. Often part way through the meal he will walk by my table on the way to the Mens room at which time he will discretely drop off her wet panties.
Another of the gentlemen insists on wearing his Kilt to these dates. During the date he will discreetly flash me.
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Luvinsunshine
Cathy & Jerry
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