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Though you may not have an active interest in humiliation, a certain amount of that comes with the territory. You, as most cuckolds, simply choose to set that aside and accept it for the cost of the Marital Garden being properly tended to. Where you may diverge is not actively seeking additional avenues to express a submissive role, which humbling is a key part of. In any event, thanks for sharing and best of luck to your (hot)wife with her new boyfriend.

Elsewhere in my posts I honestly say that as a boyfriend I really like the humiliation thing- I like a wife to be a bitch, otherwise it doesn’t add that magic dust for me. If I pause to think about it, the reason why I live this lifestyle, sometimes inexpertly, but always considerately, is that need to feel i am winning the rut contests. It’s as if somehow I have never lost the male instincts that came down through the aeons.

But I do think that this is different, that helping a wife to enjoy sex this way, when a guy cannot, is deeply caring and considerate. Perhaps its a way of living as a cuck that hasn’t been written about much-men with physical difficulties, much older men….there may be a lot of gifting to women and perhaps we should celebrate that more?

But to pick up on luvr’s point on how important humiliation can be, you could explore other sorts of sex with your wife to learn about humility and whether that helps in some way. Licking the lady out, especially when she is full of fresh cum of course signals an acceptance of what could be a ‘practical arrangement’, but it could signal so much more. She might need help to abandon herself fully to what she needs and arguably as a right to enjoy as a woman (personal philosophy showing there I know). Notice that it took her a while to start orgasming with the other guy. Perhaps she needs some words as you perform cunnilingus. ‘I know this is practical, a solution…but its a sweet solution darling. I love the smell and the taste of him on you, the thought of him pumping inside you.’ You may use such words already (if so-sorry for being inept), but if not-then they should be ‘dirty’ words, those that speak of instinct. What then follows I guess is that you share a different but so intimate sex, that she relaxes and enjoys all she wants with the other guy, and you get the reputation for being an amazing, imaginative man. There are some risks for sure-she may conclude that you have surrendered, and take the other relationship places you cannot handle. But then, dwell on the angst as well. Doesn’t that heighten your love for her. Men are built for the chase and when the chase ends, they need to reinvent it. That could be you and it necessarily involves uncertainty-that’s why it is exciting. The other risk is that you may both discover humiliation. Sensitive though this subject undoubtedly is, teasing may follow, and even a taunt or two. What you don’t or cannot do with a cock, is done with a tongue. Great. But she wants to seem just out of reach, so she insists that is second best. Ponder the feelings then-see if there is any arousal in that. Sex is a very odd thing.

Last off-my best wishes for your continued good health and what is more your mutual happiness with this wonderful wife. It might seem odd to you that a ‘bull’ writes like this, but I’m older, a bit wiser and I understand what a gift sex can be, from my end as well. Human beings re invent sex in the head, I guess no other animal does. It is amazing and the cuckolding thing is part of that. Jezz