My wife might be starting again

That certainly sounds like it has good and bad potential.  I think it’s just a matter of time before we have a similar situation.  You mentioned that you don’t want to tell her what to do which would be my position as well.  Just wanted to say good luck.  Life is complicated, I hope it works out well.  I would probably try to assess the guys personality and point out my observations to my wife.

 Hello jp,

How would I feel if my wife was looking to hook up with someone local. Hmm. It is tricky, especially if I know him. Are you supposed to know about it? If he was on board with the cuckold lifestyle it would be an opportunity. But if its an illicit affair and you aren’t supposed to know…hmm. My wife would be having fun and I would enjoy that fact ..it would still work for me to be honest. How much depends on what sort of guy he is…possible bull? or just a guy getting his rocks off.

Sounds like you don’t really know exactly what you want at the moment too. Time to talk to your good lady.

Rob