Need ideas: turning me into a sub cuckold

The key to bringing all sexual fantasies like this to fruition is great communication between you and your wife. I have coached numerous cuckold men and couples over the years and there really is no substitute for talking. Talk to her about how much it turned you on when you discovered that she had been cheating and let her know that one of the key fantasy elements for you is a sense of lacking control and ceding control to her. Tell her how much it would arouse you if you could build some fantasy roleplay around that theme into your sexual relationship.

You may have to take it slowly at first. I don’t know enough about you and your relationship with your wife to know how easy it is for the two of you to have an open discussion about her historic cheating. I would be delighted to talk some ideas through with you, if you think that might be helpful.

I certainly support what Tony tells you, talking with your wife and letting her know what turns you on is key to move on.

That being said, there’s a bit of a step from her having some affairs in the past to you being her submissive cuckold. If you unveil this directly to her, I think chances are quite high she would get scared and back off. That doesn’t mean your dream is not possible, it just means you have to be patient. Cuckolding is probably on your mind several times a day, maybe several times every hour. And most likely it’s not even in your wife’s mind, she could have cheated for completely other reasons, and in fact she may not even see you as part of “her cheat” since she never told you?

What I think would make sense in your case is to make “your project” to “her project” too. So why did she cheat on you in the past? What kind of triggers did she have, and what kind of thoughts has motivated her to take that step. It may be embarrassing for her to tell you, and probably embarrassing for you to hear, but these factors are most likely the triggers that can make her start cheating again.

Show and tell her you understand her reasons to cheat on you, and setup some of the scenarios where she cheated again. Could be a night out with you getting too drunk, a party with certain men she likes (and maybe have been with) or other incidents.

The fact she cheated the first time is a kind of “good start”, this means she has the drive and sexual appetite for other men. What holds her back today could be the weight increase (which doesn’t make her less attractive for the right man) or the fact she’s now a mother and good mothers don’t cheat. But good mothers have fun, and if their husband supports them it’s not cheating…. see the picture?

That’s a good start at least. How did you react when she told you about her superior lovers? Did it aroused you?

What you could do to help her getting interests in other men is to (simulate) erectile dysfunction. It’s quite easy, simply want off in secret before you go to bed each night. When you have sex you would automatically have difficulty getting erect and she would miss the feeling of cocks more and more. And it would give you the perfect role as oral servant with limp dick