Hi!! I’ve been a member for a little while but was too timid to post anything.
Kayy so I’m in a loving relationship with my boyfriend for six years now and like we really love each others buuuuut I admit things are a little stale. And around 10 months ago my ex-bf started messaging me again.. and he was sooo sweet and clingy… really got my heart beating fast.
We’ve been messaging each others since then and my feelings for him are all strong again, oops!! I love both of them to death… my ex has been talking to me about about hotwives and bulls… omg!!!
But I rly don’t know how to get things started with my boyfriend… I don’t want to ruin anything. Eeeeeeeeeeep
Has your boyfriend ever brought up or even hinted that he thinks about or fantasizes about sharing you with another man? If so then it might be easier to guide him into agreeing with you having sex with your ex BF, if he doesn’t have a grudge against him for anything that is. If he has never admitted to thinking about sharing you, even during roll playing during sex, then you might have a hard time getting him to go for it. If this is the case you might have to take this very slowly, guiding him into thinking about getting into the cuckolding lifestyle. This lifestyle isn’t for everyone, and some men are too “macho” to allow their wife/gf to have sexual relations with another man, especially an “ex”. That ex may not have been good BF or husband material but they may have been damned good in bed, rocked your boat so to speak. Your new BF may be terrific BF/Husband material but a bit of a dud in bed, so you feel that you need some more excitement there which no one can fault your for, that’s why we are in the lifestyle. Jerry is terrible at sex, tiny cock and no lasting power, so he’s now a cuckold and really loves it. So again you may need to take it slow and during the heat of sex give him some direction in his thoughts, mention little things to him like asking what he would think about a three way with someone some time, maybe start with another woman (WWM if you’re bi) which most men would jump at. Once that has happened one or twice then say “now it’s my turn babe, let’s do a three way with another guy. If he thinks about it and decides ok, since you were ok with him playing with you and another woman he will try MMF with you. If he has never had an issue with your ex then maybe suggest him, but if he doesn’t like him then don’t go there – Yet! When he sees you with another man (do not ignore him at any time during sex with the other man, hold his hand while the fellow is inside of you, look him in the eyes and smile at him) he might find it so erotic that he will want to do it again and again which will eventually end up with him being a cuckold sometime down the road. Go with someone he feels comfortable with. It’s not a quick thing to get into, it can take quite some time to get him to enjoy knowing that another man is “taking care” of your needs. I could go on and on with advice lol, and if you like you can contact us and we’ll do what we can to help you in your desires to cuckold your boyfriend. We’ve been in this lifestyle for almost 17 years and have helped many people find their way into the lifestyle successfully. Our best friends (a couple married for 33 years) are now in the lifestyle and she’s very happy with her new lover and he’s so happy to see her with him. There’s always a way to do it, it’s just not always the same path and timeline for everyone, the roadblocks just have to be recognized and dealt with calmly and with complete honesty, nothing hidden and no concerns unspoken. Just don’t decide to cuckold him just because your ex suggested it, this has to be a mutual decision between both of you. We hope it works out for you.
No, he hasn’t brought up such a thing but he also hasn’t spoken against it which is why I haven’t said no to myself about all of this. Also nothing negative against my ex.
Thank you so much for the WWM suggestion I didn’t think about this at all! I’ll try bringing it up. 😛
That’s so much information and advices, you’re the best thank you!!! <3