Persuading Wife to be with other man in—Vegas

Getting her to do sexy dancing is a good step, sure.  But going further, it’s better to communicate with your wife than to try to trick her.

I think most wives are susceptible to being seduced by another man, but the process is usually accompanied by wrenching guilt for her.  It’s easier and better all around if she knows ahead of time that you’re okay with it.

I thought there was absolutely no way my wife would be willing.  She was initially shocked.  But now she’s enthusiastic.

I am in the same boat, but we have two children. I am forty-five and my wife is thirty-nine. My struggle is that we are Christians. I believe that it is a biblical point of view that if both spouces agree to something then it is alright.

I know I am the Dorm in our relationship so I am cool with what she wants. I think if we could have friends that don’t worry about my role as a minister and just hang out things could happen.

I know many would judge me a hypocrite for being here but I know what I am thinking is ok. I plan to let it take its course.

I suggest watching porn and Ive stated I would love to watch her with another man. She rejects the idea but not vehemantly. I am still learning my role as a submissive dorm but I am looking forward to watching her with other men and getting loose in our sex life.

Redkitten 

You need to make it about your wife’s pleasure and not about you getting off by watching. 

Jameson Bull in NC

Make her feel that she’s sexy and attractive. Give her confidence and she’ll decide what she wants to do. The other night, while we were having sex after a few drinks, my wife said ‘I want to be f***ed like a slut by a real man’ and ‘I want a real man to make me his slut.’ I was quite surprised and it took me a few days to get enough courage to speak to her about it but when I did, I was surprised again. She told me that she lacks sexual confidence and experience (she’s only been with me) and that she doesn’t want another man at this stage, but that she doesn’t discount it happening one day. I am going to keep the idea alive and subtly (I hope) encourage her to have sex with others. If she wants a boyfriend, great. If she wants a few one offs, fine. Its about what she wants, first.