Starting up again

Find me someone who doesn’t already follow their chosen faith selectively in one or more ways and I’ll find you Jesus. The intent of fidelity is to not allow things to come between you as a couple. When you both want the same thing and work in that direction together, you build bonds rather than remove them.

We’ve all heard jokes and stories about the preachers daughter, or Catholic girls, and why is that?…….. Because basically, the stereotype is true. Sex is largely a mental game, and it’s just human nature that we find naughty thoughts and actions sexually stimulating. The sexual taboos foisted upon us by religion when we were kids, eventually serve as erotic fuel for our sexual fantasies as we get older. You tell us your wife is “turned on immensely by cuckolding”, is this in spite of, or maybe because of, her religious upbringing? This lifestyle is literally fueled by religious, sexual, and social taboos. Interracial sex, creampie cleanup, public exhibition and cuckold mating rituals are just a few of the many examples of how we stray from societal and religious norms. These practices really are kind of a “big deal”, and I’m sure your wife probably finds it a little scary to take that first step. My advice would be to keep the fantasies going, feed the fire by encouraging her to discuss these scenarios during pillow talk. We all know how alcohol lowers our inhibitions, and makes us do things we might consider irresponsible when we were sober. Well, lust works the same way. Lust is our drug. And in this situation with your wife, lust is your friend. Keep the fantasies fueled, feed her lust, and just maybe one day she will take that first step. Even if she never does, you can still enjoy the erotic fantasies with her