Where I’m at

I’m a recently married (like three weeks ago recent), but have long been interested in the idea of being cuckolded. I realized years ago that I am naturally submissive and I think being cuckolded is the result of a culmination of submissive desires. About a week before I was married I decided to confess my desires to my wife to be. It was certainly a difficult task as I risked rejection only a week before the wedding. However, I did feel confident about the confession as my wife is open-minded, non-traditional an had expressed an interest in polyamory (which obviously I realize is different than cuckolding) in the past. Fortunately my instinct was right and my wife was completely understanding of my desires. I had a host of other confessions as well which included the desire to be in chastity and to be put in panties by a dominant woman. Again, my wife was understanding and I could definitely tell that she was turned on by my fantasies. Finally, I confessed that I was bisexual and that I had fooled around with other men before. This seemed to REALLY grab her attention and she seemed to be taken with the idea of having two men lavish her with attention.

Since my confession I have been trying to subtly push the conversation forward with the ultimate goal of having her cuckold me. I have beat around the bush somewhat, not wanting to scare her off of the idea before she can get comfortable with it. I sent her some links to stories and articles about chastity that delved into D/s lifestyles where the female is the dominant, and I even wore panties to bed one night. She was turned on by both of these things and in both cases it resulted in amazing sex filled with dirty talk and fantasizing.

So I find myself in the same position as many guys here and am wondering how to progress the dialogue. Given my wife’s seemingly intense desire for an MMF threesome I am wondering if this might be a good first step. If she has any guilt about being with another guy, having me there participating may ease that guilt somewhat and we can use that experience to introduce her to having sexual freedom in our relationship without guilt. I could be completely off in this idea, so I am looking for feedback on it.

Some other questions/concerns I have:

Has any cuck/sub had to reconcile their bisexuality with the cuckold lifestyle? Does the cuckold being a sexual provider to the bull/Dom work, or is this just a product of commercially produced pornography?

Do other cuckolds find that they have the ability and freedom to explore their submissive nature (i.e. becoming more feminine, crossdressing, etc), or this a selfish viewpoint that should be quashed? In other words, should the wife or Dom be leading all such activities with the sub having no say over whether he is allowed to dress en femme, etc?