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    • #19929
      cuckinct

        Any particular reason you are a cuckold? For me it is a combo of a small penis and lack of stamina. I’ve always been a minute man in bed.

      • #20137
        guma34567

          Zacznijmy od tego że jeszcze nie jestem rogaczem,ale chciał bym nim zostać.Jestem w trakcie namawiania żony na dorobienie mi rogów.Mam 47 lat a moja żona ma duże potrzeby seksualne.Myślę że przydał by się nam pomocnik w łóżku.Członka nie mam raczej małego.Może dlatego tak trudno namówić mi żonę na skok w bok.Ale czuję potrzebę zobaczenia mojej żony z innym i myślę że to odświeżyło by nasze życie seksualne.

        • #20223
          Gracie

            I don’t know what guma said above, but for me, I knew I was not satisfying my wife. I am 4 1/2 inches when hard, and also quick, so I asked my wife to start fucking other guys. I actually expected her to refuse, but after VERY minor token resistance, she quickly agreed to it.

            The rest is history. I have been happily cucked ever since. No regrets. I love watching my wife get her brains fucked out by her black boyfriends and then doing the clean up. Awesome!

            • #23117
              Cathy & Jerry

                I’ve mentioned this in other groups, I thought I’d repeat it for this one since it fits very well.

                We’ve been in the lifestyle for 13 years. He admitted he knew I was faking orgasms and that he felt nothing at all coming from me in the form of passion. He’s only 3 inches fully hard and barely the thickness of my thumb. He told me he loved me very much and didn’t want me to be so sexually frustrated and asked me to find a lover.

                What my husband did was sit with me after (very bad) sex and told me he had been thinking about our sex lives. He asked me to be honest with him and tell him if I’m satisfied. I had told him in joking ways that he wasn’t doing it for me but this time I was serious and told him his little cock wasn’t doing a thing for me, then I started crying. He hugged me and explained that he understands and always knew it deep down. He told me that he loves me very much and would never want to be without me, then asked me if I would like to have a lover for sex only.

                I was shocked at first and said “No” and asked if he was hoping I would so he could play with another woman. I was pissed off for sure but he again calmed me down and explained that he never wants to disappoint another woman and laughed, I calmed down and giggled to that as well. I said “ok, so where is this going”? He explained more that he would really like me to be sexually happy and would like to see me have a lover to take care of that. He even offered to help me find someone online. I always had men hitting on me at work (co-workers and customers) and if I wanted to I could agree to meet with one.

                After about three weeks or more of thinking about it and talking more about it, I decide to give it a try. I met with a man one evening and brought him home, and I told him that my husband was out for the weekend and I was cheating on him. My husband had a camera set up so he could watch from another room he was staying in for the night, to be sure I was safe. We had amazing sex that night and when he left the next morning my husband came to me and said that he was horny all night watching me get laid and hearing me having orgasm after orgasm, and asked me if I wanted to continue seeing him, to which I responded with a resounding YES!! lol.

                About two years later he admitted to liking my panties and dresses and asked if it was ok to wear them and masturbate in them from time to time while listening to me getting laid in the bedroom above. I understood and not only let him wear my clothes I went with him to buy his own special panties and bras, dresses and high heels etc without anyone knowing what we were doing (at least we didn’t think anyone caught on lol).

                Now 13 years later my husband is a sissy cuckold wearing only panties every day all day, and dresses at home. He greets my boyfriend at the door wearing babydolls and a beer in his hand to give him as he walks in. He enjoys licking me clean from time to time and even takes my boyfriend’s cock in his mangina (lol) when he’s ordered to, which he’s admitted he loves. I think he’s become more gay than straight but not all cuckolds go this way, but he’s definitely not the only cuckold husband to go this way.

                He’s been asking me to stop taking my BCP’s in the hopes I would be impregnated but I’m not sure If I’m ready for that but stranger things have happened lol. Anyway, I just thought I’d put in my two cents lol. It’s so good to see so many terrific husbands on here giving their wives’ what they truly deserve, the freedom to choose while they get nothing or very little pussy at all. 🙂

                • #27593
                  Stefan stefanov

                    hello if you want live cuckoold writing

                  • #28298
                    Cathy & Jerry

                      ? Sorry I don’t understand what that means. 🙂 I don’t get on here often, so I’m sorry for the long delay

                    • #35750
                      Scotty

                        I think everything you said was perfect and I jokingly brought up my girlfriend being impregnated but when we weren’t turned on we realized that’s not something we should bring to the real world. Love is important and so is procreation with the one you love. I won’t knock it if that’s yours or anyone else’s thing but I feel like that might be one if not the one and only thing that could actually ruin a cuckold relationship. I will admit it’s hot to think of my girl getting pregnant by her bull but it just feels too scary to live out. Has anyone tried this and been successful?

                      • #35773
                        Cathy & Jerry

                          Hi Scotty. That still hasn’t happened and by now I’m not willing to go through with it but my hubby loves the thought of it and even masturbates a lot thinking about that as he has told me. My current boyfriend is living with us during this covid thing much to my husband’s delight. He stays in the guest room permanently at this time and says he enjoys listening to us “make love” and hopes it’ll lead to a pregnancy but I don’t have the heart to tell him that I’m not going to do it, I’ll let him enjoy his thoughts and masturbating. I am in love with my boyfriend and I’m in love with my husband but I can honestly say it’s two different kinds of love and I would never want to be without either one 🙂

                        • #35775
                          Bellaazz

                            My wife says she has different love for her lovers and me. As long as I am included I am happy 🙂

                        • #27382
                          latetotheparty

                            still going strong?

                            • #28297
                              Cathy & Jerry

                                Sorry. If you’re message was to me then yes, we’re still going strong and I’m loving every minute of it! 🙂

                          • #20233
                            dave

                              My wife enjoys a little more than I can give. I’ve always had a low sex drive and once a week is ok for me. She has a steady lover she sees once or twice a week. She doesn’t see different men, her lovers are long term. We have been married over 25 years now and it’s working out great.

                              • #31529
                                slaveofwife

                                  im happy for you and your wife it looks like everyone is happy.
                                  any idea how I can encourage my wife? she seems to shut down the idea! 🙁
                                  and at other times she seems more receptive.

                                • #35751
                                  Scotty

                                    How did you get passed the jealousy and or the closeness your wife shared with her boyfriend or boyfriends? I love that she goes out solo on dates and brings them home or stays the night but it gets tough at times when she tells me she wants to take me
                                    Up on being pussyfree for an extended period of time. Does your wife make you pussy free or does she give you your own time together? How do I get my longtime girlfriend to find a long term boyfriend and feel good knowing she won’t leave me? Should I marry her first to make us feel more solidified? We feel like we’re married but maybe this will help make it feel like we’re not going anywhere. We definitely know we want to get married soon. We have done this lifestyle three years but recently we split up because I was not treating her right and she ended up dating the guy and broke up with him and she realize she wanted me back. Now we’re getting back together and she says she doesn’t want this lifestyle anymore and she wants it to be just us. I feel like she likes it as much as me but she’s pretending like she never enjoyed it. She’s asked do I want to do it if there’s a chance I could lose her and I said no but if I’m good to you you won’t go anywhere I feel confident. I feel like she just wants to know sharing her doesn’t mean I don’t care for her. She recently told a close friend (who’s in a vanilla Relationship) of our relationship and her friend has her convinced I don’t love her if I let her play. For years she understood that it meant I actually love her so much that I want her to have a lover if she chooses. Her friend has really made her second guess our lifestyle.

                                • #20244
                                  j0hnny

                                    I’m still a wannabe (though we have been talking about it), but I came gradually to the fetish from a few directions.
                                    On the surface I developed fetishes for enforced chastity and creampie clean up, two things that can’t really happen at the same time without…help. We also ran into issues of my wanting longer denial periods but her wanting real cock more often, etc… Again, a problem that could be solved with…help.
                                    I think, somewhere below the surface, it may have developed from the fact that previous loves of my life cheated on me. By allowing\encouraging my wife to take a lover I remove that taboo\temptation and insure that our relationship has a deeper foundation.
                                    At another level still, at a critical formative period in my life I read The Mists of Avalon and it opened my eyes to the ridiculousness of patriarchal societies and taboos on female promiscuity.
                                    My wife may never take a lover, but she repeatedly expresses her appreciation for my ability to give her that freedom, that level of trust.

                                    • #35752
                                      Scotty

                                        My relationship started out as a vanilla relationship with my girlfriend knowing about my fantasy. She felt apprehensive that I only wanted it so I can play but she found out quickly I’m happy not getting anything. I am into cream pie cleanup and I can say by experience it is amazing and never gets old. At first with this fantasy, we talked about it only during sex then it turned into little conversations here and there to reassure her I can handle it. then it turned into a real life scenario and went on and off throughout the years. I will say if your bond is strong this works. The one thing I did wrong is neglect her and think letting her play would make up for it but it only made her leave me and now we’re back together she doesn’t want to try this again but I imagine she just wants me to treat her right to get back to where we left off.

                                    • #20294
                                      exploringcuck

                                        I am not small and do no cum very fast, but still wife is not very satisfied by me. I am a cuckold because I love what is going and this is a new experience for me and I hope in future i will be allowed to see them having sex too.

                                      • #20300
                                        cuckold2014

                                          Complicated. So many feelings. My wife wanted (without being entirely conscious of this) bigger. It was clear to me, although she denied it. I wanted to increase trust, increase our experience as we got married young. The list goes on and on. Just the raw excitement alone is worth it.

                                        • #20306
                                          groom2010

                                            We evolved into cuckolding from 3some with another male. Didn’t happen overnight but over probably 4 or 5 months. Very active sexually during weekends with other guy, he eventually asked for private time. This initially excited me, wow another man has the hots for my wife. They would spend their private time together and normally I would join them later in evening. Over time I backed off of my sex with her because of it being too much. He noticed and here we are

                                          • #20323
                                            Thehusband

                                              The monotony sex causes dissatisfaction sexual and because that libido low. So, the brain are a big sex and because that is discovered the forbidden sex and open doors of unknown pleasures… another man for her excited us.

                                            • #20634
                                              cuckpaul

                                                Mine started with my wife cheating on me with my best friends brother. He is married also and as Far as I know his wife doesn’t know they fuck about twice a month.

                                              • #20636
                                                Gracie

                                                  @paul, does your wife know that you know? Does she fuck other guys besides the brother of your best friend? Are you encouraging her to fuck others? Has your best friend fucked her?

                                                  Do you fuck her? Do you watch? Do you clean either or both of them up after?

                                                • #20637
                                                  Gracie

                                                    @groom2010, that is great! So you do not have sex at all with your wife? I don’t. I am not allowed to. Besides the one guy, does she fuck others too? Do you encourage her? Watch?

                                                  • #20641
                                                    Anonymous

                                                      Fact is I’m 4.25″ wife is extremely curious of size that I can not provide.

                                                      • #20643
                                                        cuckpaul

                                                          Greg, yes Yes she knows I know and she fucks others. He has been the one constant over the years. No encouragement needed. They have Not fucked that I am aware of, but I wouldnt be surprised.

                                                      • #20651
                                                        groom2010

                                                          @Gerald g Sex with my wife is limited, currently I am totally denied. Any further questions please ask.

                                                        • #20652
                                                          Gracie

                                                            @groom2010 Actually, I do think that a cuck should be restricted from having sex with his own wife. It makes the experience much more intense, at least, it does for me.

                                                            Does she have other lovers besides the one guy? Do you watch? Do you clean? Do you make your own holes available for her lovers? How far have you been feminized or sissyfied?

                                                            As you can see, I have been totally feminized. In fact, a long time ago, my wife threw away all my male clothes. I am female 24/7/365.


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                                                              latetotheparty

                                                                This subject turns me on to no end. Thank you for sharing…

                                                            • #20654
                                                              JsCuck

                                                                I am a cuckold because both cuckoldress and I are kinky and submissive by nature, so we need someone from the outside to play a Dominant role in our marriage. When we found our current Bull we knew he was the one. I’m not a bad lover, but He is a great lover with an awesome sexual chemistry with my cuckoldress. The sex is the best she’s had with anyone, ever. How could I possibly deny this to the woman I love?

                                                                I agree with Gerald G that the cuck being restricted from sex with his wife can be amazing, especially for the submissively inclined. Our bull demanded this about a year ago, and my cuckoldress is sexually exclusive with her Bull at this point. We were surprised by it at the time, but like it quite a lot as we are both very submissive and eager to please Him.

                                                                The question we are asking ourselves is whether the Bull is providing enough sexual frequency and emotional connection with my cuckoldress to justify the exclusive arrangement?

                                                                In short, these kinds of requests we are happy to oblige if my cuckoldress receives the proper amount of respect and attention in return.

                                                              • #20655
                                                                Gracie

                                                                  First, I should have mentioned that my fem name is Gracie, and I prefer, since i am a chick with a dick, that people call me Gracie.

                                                                  @jsCuck, is the agreement that exists with your wife’s boyfriend make him exclusive to her? I mean, nobody else has any right to fuck her. She cannot take on another boyfriend? If such an agreement does not exist, then she is free to take on any number of additional boyfriends as she wishes. You should, of course, remain “pussy-free” as the cuck.

                                                                  If there is such an agreement or understanding, then she needs to make it clear with him that he is not fulfilling his complete duty to her by not giving her nearly enough sex. So he either needs to bring friends over to fuck her as well, or he needs to acknowledge that she is free to find other boyfriends.

                                                                  There are some very Dom black boyfriends that my wife has. But they know she enjoys a LOT of fucking, and she is free to have as many black boyfriends as she wants. And she has a LOT of them. Some of her Dom black boyfriends helped her totally feminize me.


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                                                                • #20660
                                                                  JsCuck

                                                                    Hi Gracie.

                                                                    Thank you for your thoughtful reply. You are very beautiful in your feminized form by the way.

                                                                    You are correct that my wife is exclusive to this Bull, but that’s it’s not enough for either of us.

                                                                  • #20690
                                                                    Gracie

                                                                      @jscuck, thank you for your compliment.

                                                                      You both need to sit down with your bull and talk to him about the amount of time he spends with you (your wife) just isn’t enough to satisfy your needs, and thus she needs to find some additional sexual partners.

                                                                      He should be understanding, but if not, so be it. He will either eventually get over it or will part ways, but that leaves the door open for you for more interesting times.

                                                                    • #20735
                                                                      ahealthyguy4u

                                                                        Just found this discussion and being a wannabe cuck myself I thought maybe I could join in by saying that:

                                                                        My interpretation of what guma34567 said:
                                                                        He is 47 years old and not a cuckold yet but he is trying to persuade his wife to cuckold him. guma says that his wife has a lot of sexual needs and guma feels that those needs can only be met if she has another man, in addition to himself, to satisfy her. If there was another man (bull) then guma would act as the helper.

                                                                        I do not speak Polish but do use online translation websites. This is only my interpretation.

                                                                      • #21092
                                                                        Anonymous

                                                                          I am a cuckold because i couldnt satisfy my wife in bed not because i was small but because i came too quickly when we had sex and then eventually started to lose the ability to get it hard enough for sex with her. I knew she was frustrated and when a new guy at her work started to flirt with her i said she should respond positively to him. It took a while hut he eventually bedded her and still is that was 3 years ago last year she became exclusive to him

                                                                        • #21094
                                                                          tully

                                                                            I came to be a want2be cuckold after many years as my Queen wife’s submissive. Since 2010 she has forbidden masturbation and allows about one orgasm per month. After a couple years of long denial periods we both noticed how I’d become premature. We discussed the cause and considered changing our ways but in the end Queen wanted to keep control of me and my cock… Eventually I started thinking she deserved longer lasting cock, led me to cuckold fantasies and this website. I admitted fantasies to Queen and we discussed her cuckolding me. So far she says she isn’t ready to take a lover…
                                                                            tully

                                                                          • #21720
                                                                            robbiewillsucku

                                                                              I don’t think the size of your cock is a major factor. I believe all females needs lots of lovers 1on1 and 3or4-ways. Females can handle more than one cock. I have been with some sub sissy bimales that had big cocks.

                                                                              I think the best way is the male wanting to do anything and everything to pleasure his wife including letting her enjoy any cock she wants and including you becoming a sub sissy slut.


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                                                                                Old and jaded

                                                                                  New here, and after looking around and reading the posts, it doesnt seem like I “fit” here. The only person on this entire forum where I read what they say and find myself thinking “yea, thats it” is robbiewillsucku. The vast majority of the posters here seem to be obsessed with dick size and thier own sexual inadequacy, rather than focused on female sexuality.
                                                                                  I dont have a huge dick by any means, but its not small either, and I am not a 30 second wonder. Between my wife and I, I am the far more experienced partner, and sexually, very much the “top” in the relationship, for lack of a better term. In fact, thats what has led me down this road, I am in my late fifties, and my wife is in her late forties, I am her second marriage, and when we started down the road we are on, Her ex and I were the only men she had had sex with. She orgasms with me most of the time(and when she doesnt, its usually more due to restrictions because of time constraints imposed by lifestyle, and sometimes having a young child interfers).
                                                                                  I felt that it was unfair and unrealistic for her to go through the remainder of her life only having had sexual experience with two men, when I have had literally dozens of lovers over the years, and that is what has led me to encourage her to explore her sexuality with other men, especially considering that she is rapidly closing in on menopause. To be honest, I would also LOVE to share her in a threesome (male or female either way, as long as the focus is on her), or watch her fuck another guy. I just like it when she comes, and at least sometimes, I would like to be able to just sit back and WATCH that happen.
                                                                                  As far as the whole “dick size” obsession on here, my wife has endometrosis, she cant even take MY dick in some positions. Arent there any guys on here that just simply question the whole puritanical “good girls should only want to fuck one guy” BS, and just want thier wifes to feel free to explore thier sexuality, and want to participate in that process with them, without focusing on thier own percieved sexual inadequacy? I really am not trying to be a dick here, and I really do respect that everyone is different, but hell, to be honest, there really doesnt seem to be much in the way of difference here. Its just that based on what I am reading here, there only seems to be one member that is anywhere near to being on the same page as me. I cant help feeling like I dont fit in any better on here than I would on a “family values” Christian marriage type forum, it comes across as just as extreme, but at a different place on the spectrum. I guess Im not a “cuckold” in the traditional sense, but its not like theres that many places I can go.
                                                                                  Is getting banned on your first post some kind of a record? LOL!

                                                                                  • #23394
                                                                                    Thehusband

                                                                                      I understand your perspective but, in my opinion, all answers are valid. Female needs are intrinsic to the reported lack of their husbands.The difference is good but the similarities make pairs, we (this community) are pairs and because of that is normal the similarity of the reasons. If many answers are fantasies, this is another story.

                                                                                    • #23395
                                                                                      Old and jaded

                                                                                        I hesitate to answer, as I have already asked the forum owner to delete my post and my membership, but I agree, all answers are “valid” as long as you are coming from the same perspective. The problem is, any answers I am likely to get are probably going to be skewed towards a “I cant make my wife come” perspective, and as such, they are not likely to be helpful or “valid” for anyone approaching things from the “I dont believe its reasonable to expect any woman to have all her needs met by just one partner” perspective.

                                                                                  • #23015
                                                                                    knightshade

                                                                                      In my case it has nothing to do with penis size or me being bad in bed.

                                                                                      First, it turns me on to know my wife is being fucked by another man.

                                                                                      Second, she wanted to do it – but it had to be the right man.

                                                                                      Third, my PTSD/MST has gotten to the point where I’m disconnecting from people – even my wife. She has a hard time with that because she needs the intimacy and romantic attentions, and I just can’t give that to her.

                                                                                      So it took a few years but she found the right man for the job. They have bondage type sex in the main bedroom, while I moved into the spare bedroom down the hall. She spends her romantic time with him. He’ll be moving in come spring. Overall, I’m REALLY happy that we did this.

                                                                                    • #23129
                                                                                      Beckynstu

                                                                                        for me it is a combination of knowing that i do not satisfy becky, due to my size, and also that it turns me on to see her with another guy, knowing she is getting what she deserves and what i cant give her

                                                                                      • #23239
                                                                                        Older Cuck with Hot Wife

                                                                                          Without realizing it I became a cuckold 40 years ago while still a newlywed. Stacey and I dated through high school and college and the sex became a bit unsatisfying for her. She was really good about it but I knew I wasn’t ever going to be able to give her what she wanted. I encouraged a relationship with a high school boy who hung around our apartment complex and who was very attracted to her. After a few months I consented (encouraged) Stacey to see where it goes with him – this after many advances from the younger man. Eventually they had sex and she found it very exciting and fulfilling. He was much larger than my 5″ and lasted much longer than my minute or two. A rule we established from the first was that I would never watch or be in the same room during sex. Fast forward to now – over time I realized I had indeed become a cuck. Found it exhilarating and still do.

                                                                                        • #23320
                                                                                          CouriousCouple

                                                                                            It’s a long story. Short story, I love my wife. It’s the hottest thing in the world to see her in total ecstasy. To see her talk dirty and reach into a primal urge and totally enjoy the moment. Knowing she loves you! The humiliation and the pride in your wife!

                                                                                          • #27199
                                                                                            Hercuckslav

                                                                                              My wife enjoys the attention of other men and the sexual and emotional evolution of a boyfriend girlfriend relationship. I am not at all small in terms of endowment so I cannot blame my generic DNA for her wanting to be a Hotwife or me wanting to be Her cuck. Familiarity of many years does not allow us to retain that initial few years of excitement and desire, sex evolves into something else, in our case more beds, fetish related activities and some extreme acts of service by me, eventually leading to cucking. Our sexuality is now very emotive and intellectual, She enjoys the power exchange that is provided when dating a lover, and the power exchange over me as I become more centred, focussed and supportive, i.e a better more attentive husband.

                                                                                            • #27202
                                                                                              Gracie

                                                                                                @Hercuckslave, you have a wonderful attitude. That is awesome.

                                                                                              • #27233
                                                                                                cuckyhubbyhk

                                                                                                  i am 18 years older than my wife. it wasn’t an issue when I was 40-ish when I married her, but as time went by I am now 56 and she is only 38, i cannot do it at all but she’s still in her peak of needing. I am glad she is happier and I maintained as the no. 1 of her life except sexually.

                                                                                                  • #28124
                                                                                                    voyuerboy

                                                                                                      Was there any talk or inquiry of looking into using toys to satisfying your wife? I’m just curious if that was a possibility…

                                                                                                  • #27398
                                                                                                    Gtahotwifecouple

                                                                                                      As my wife’s cuckold, I’m just wired that way. I can’t place any specific reason to it, other than I’m built to be a cuckold and my wife is built to be a Cuckoldress. It’s the dynamic that works for us as a couple. We love each other deeply and it has nothing to do with inadequacies or short comings as a man. In fact, my wife usually places me above most men, hence why we often have a hard time finding suitable Bulls, but when we do find one, she will cuckold me harder than most. Again, as a cuck, the only answer I can come up with it that it’s just the way I’m wired.

                                                                                                      • #27399
                                                                                                        latetotheparty

                                                                                                          Nice answer……….

                                                                                                      • #27402
                                                                                                        hubbyathome

                                                                                                          Why am I a cuckold? ……… As a young man, I had the outward demeanor, size, and appearance of an alpha male, and I bluffed my way through life playing the part while avoiding conflicts with true alphas. I was super awkward with women, had no confidence and never made the first move, unintentionally sending the wrong message to girls that were attracted to me. Those girls would eventually tire of my seeming indifference, and end up with with a more aggressive guy. My friends and acquaintances would have been surprised to know that I was still a virgin at age 21 when I met my wife-to-be in college. Diane was experienced, and confident. She knew what she wanted, and luckily she wanted me. We fell in love, and got really serious. That following summer, we were apart for a month, while I went back to my home town. We talked on the phone every day we were apart, but two days after my return, she tearfully confessed to cheating on me with two different guys during my absence. I was angry and devastated, and broke up with her. After a couple of weeks, the blinding anger started to fade, and I could start to rationally consider how devastating it would be for this amazing woman to no longer be in my life. For the first time I was truly able to understand the difference between love and sex, and I had no doubt whatsoever who the person who loved me most in the world, was. Fortunately, I came to my senses before I was able to drive my girlfriend away, and found that my love for her was deeper than ever, and there were no longer any doubts in my mind that she was the woman I would marry, and spend the rest of my life with. A few weeks after we got together I found myself thinking about Diane with those other guys and found myself increasingly aroused by the thoughts. I started asking her occasionally for details about her trysts, but due to my initial reaction she was hesitant, and only gave me bits and pieces even though I assured her the details would be arousing to me. Then one lazy afternoon in my dorm room, she had been giving me head, then sat up and was idly stroking me. I asked her “Did you suck those other two guys that good?” ……. As I asked the question, she could feel my cock noticeably stiffen in her hand. “Wow”…she said, giving my stiffening penis a few hard strokes….. “I guess you really are turned on by thinking about me with those guys, aren’t you?” ……… I immediately ejaculated in her hand. She smiled and said…. “I guess I’ll take that as a yes”……… Looking back at that moment 38 years ago, I realize that was the point I became a cuckold. Over the next week, Diane shared the intimate details of her trysts accompanied by slow hand jobs. She quickly realized that the naughtier the details were, the more aroused I would get, and when she told me that one of the guys had given her the best fuck of her life, she knew the naughty confession would cause me to ejaculate on cue. After a month of us both openly fantasizing about her with other guys during our love-making, we were ready for the real thing. Back then, without internet, there was no information anywhere about this lifestyle, and we were unsure how to proceed. So Diane pretended to cheat on me with a guy from our group of friends. (Who I didn’t care for, but couldn’t hide my arousal when she first suggested him) He didn’t know I was aware and Diane would sneak out every couple of weeks to have sex with him and then return to me with the naughty details for our own hot times. After we were married, Diane continued to play this way with friends, co-workers and strangers, who all thought she was cheating on me. We had a very exciting sex life through the years, and I am so glad for the course of events that made me realize my role in life as a cuckold.

                                                                                                          • #27406
                                                                                                            latetotheparty

                                                                                                              Insightful share. thank you.

                                                                                                          • #27403
                                                                                                            Anonymous

                                                                                                              There are men who are meant to be husband’s, but not meant to be lovers. And then there are men who are meant to be lovers but not meant to be a husband. And then, there are men who can, and do accomplish both. And the men who can accomplish both are the men who have a normal marriage. But for those of us who are not meant to be lovers our wives seek that emotional bond somewhere else.

                                                                                                            • #27404
                                                                                                              Anonymous

                                                                                                                It seems silly to try to define normal for others. I’d also say that sex can surely trigger strong emotions, but I think the most successful cuckold arrangements between a wife and another man must have and must maintain the “physical” as both their foundation and central mission.

                                                                                                                And of course a husband and wife can have a profound emotional connection entirely outside of sex. They can — and probably most couples do — also have a rich and complex emotional component that derives from their practice of cuckoldry.

                                                                                                                • #27405
                                                                                                                  latetotheparty

                                                                                                                    Great answers..thank you

                                                                                                                • #27605
                                                                                                                  Jay

                                                                                                                    I love the Idea of being a submissive cuckold, and I think it would be a psychological vacation from my reality. My wife and I love the experience leading up to a cuckold adventure, but unfortunately, we have not been successful.

                                                                                                                    Ironically, I do not have the typical characteristics of a cuckold. I have enjoyed a remarkably successful career and oversee a large workforce. I am in decent shape, have much stamina and, and blessed with a thick 8” cut cock. This makes it exceedingly difficult for us to find a bull that lives up to my wife’s expectations. Our latest experience with a “bull” ended with him eating my wifes cream pie with my cum.

                                                                                                                    • #27688
                                                                                                                      Hercuckslav

                                                                                                                        Just wanted to add that whilst I agree that “porn” provides and provides an image of weak and unsuccessful men this can often not be the case. I think you might find that many of “us” cuckolds are intelligent and self assured, often in relationships / marriages that allow us to articulate our sexual drivers and needs with our partners and hence in many cases cucks are successful career, business owners or alternatively know what it is we want to do with our lives and hence may not be motivated by power, status or money! It depends how you value success and progress! Cuckolding is not, in my mind, for those who are emotionally or intellectually irresponsible or weak but rather the reverse, and enjoy handing over the responsibility and assertiveness of sexual decisions (the very thing that makes us Alpha male sin other arenas of life), but are confident enough to relinquish the very same. Just a thought…..

                                                                                                                    • #27727
                                                                                                                      ….

                                                                                                                        As I am still waiting for my wife to cuckold me, I can only say why I want to be a cuckold. I noticed years ago that I become very aroused when my wife makes me jealous. Anytime another man has taken notice of my wife and she was flattered, I became very sexually excited and would immediately imagine her making out with and being seduced by the stranger. I finally learned that the scientific term for this phenomenon is zelophilia. After reading more on the subject, I stumbled upon cuckolding and knew immediately that I want to be cuckolded. Now I just need to get my wife to take the next step. I’m hoping this forum will help me make this fantasy true.

                                                                                                                      • #27830
                                                                                                                        Cuckoldme

                                                                                                                          I became one at first because my wife was seduced chatting on the net. She wound up fucking the guy. I found out it turned me on like crazy. I have to admit now that I am more into watching and sucking and cleaning the bull dicks.

                                                                                                                        • #27870
                                                                                                                          HappyCuckold

                                                                                                                            My small size pre-mature ejaculation and general poor performance with women, forced me to accept my inadequacy. When my wife jokingly said she should try other men, I told her I agreed, much to both of our surprise! Once out in the open, we discussed the idea and she was for it. It took me much longer and was harder for me to accept. However, once I put aside my silly male ego and focused on her satisfaction, I became a happy cuckold in a win, win, win loving relationship!

                                                                                                                          • #28282
                                                                                                                            Bellaazz

                                                                                                                              Well, I have always been turned on by thoughts of sexually dominant, unfaithful wives or girlfriends. I remember watching a talk show that had husbands of porno wives and I found it fascinating, wishing I was them. When I first got married, I kept these thoughts tucked away but my wife noticed that when she told me about her past sexual experiences, I would get turned on. Now I would be lying if I tried to say my tiny size and my inability to last longer than a minute before cumming didn’t have something to do with it, however my wife began to notice that I got really turned on when she would dress sexily and others would notice. Then when we’d watch a porn movie she’d noticed how it would turn me on when she said how much she liked the guys cock or stamina. She also was a bit dom so she would have me eat her pussy and orgasm 4 or 5 times while watching porn together, without giving me release. From there it began to blossom into me admitting the thoughts of her being with another well-hung man turned me on. She was very jealous so her initial response was that she thought I was trying to tell her I wanted to “swing” or be with another woman, but eventually I convinced her I had no desire for that whatsoever, that I couldn’t satisfy her how could even think of another. I explained that her sexual satisfaction would cause me satisfaction. It kind of came to a head when we were with other couples, playing a game of “truth or dare” and on my turn, I mentioned I had a fantasy of her being with another man. The other couples (our friends) laughed and figured I was kidding but on the way home, my wife said “you were serious about that weren’t you, I know it ?” So when I admitted it, she said we’d have to consider a way to make it happen that would be good for both of us and to make a very long story (sorry) shorter, we did just that and eventually made it happen. Now I am VERY VERY proud to be her cuckold and we are more in love than ever

                                                                                                                            • #29838
                                                                                                                              Anonymous

                                                                                                                                I am a good Husband but I am unable to satisfy my wife in Bed, Small penis poor stamina and a 3 minute man.Made sense along time ago.

                                                                                                                              • #29941
                                                                                                                                4DecadeCuck

                                                                                                                                  I am a cuckold because I feel most loved when my wife has sex with other men. I feel this way because she is putting my wants and needs first. And that means a lot to me. I see her as most beautiful when she has another man’s cock in her mouth. And being able to see her with another man between her legs, her face beaming, her body rocking in motion is the most beautiful sight I can imagine.

                                                                                                                                  When we’ve had men live with us, it made it so convenient. They were able to get the sex they needed, which gave my wife the opportunity to do for me by having sex with them. Waking up to another man making love to your wife is like waking up in sunshine everyday. It’s beautiful, makes you feel warm, and it just feels really, really good.

                                                                                                                                  You know your wife is truly beautiful when other men want her. And knowing that she is my wife makes me proud. I know that she truly loves me when we have a date night and she wants to go to the adult arcade and get fucked. And we both consider the night a success when she has several guys fuck her, guys we don’t know who were willing to give her the opportunity to make me feel loved.

                                                                                                                                  I am a cuckold because I can’t imagine living and feeling loved any other way.

                                                                                                                                  • #29943
                                                                                                                                    Bellaazz

                                                                                                                                      Although your description may seem a little extreme for me, I can relate to how you feel and understand. I got through a little cuckold angst when another man is having my wife but after wards, when she and I cuddle and kiss, I feel so proud to be her cuckold. And so glad she is willing to do this

                                                                                                                                  • #30444
                                                                                                                                    Daphnis72

                                                                                                                                      Two factors:

                                                                                                                                      1. Long before my wife, Katherine and I, got married, we were dating. She had been dating my good friend, Chris, but I “won” her from him and he and I fell out as a result. She, meanwhile, was not sure exactly what she wanted. So, one night when I called her at home (this is in the late 1980s), I found she wasn’t there. Her naive younger brother, who didn’t realise he could have got her into trouble, said, “I think she went to her boyfriend’s house.” Well, I knew that that meant she had gone over to Chris’ place.

                                                                                                                                      So I called Chris under some pretence based on the fact that he and I had been good friends until recently. When he answered, it was clear he was distracted, and I could tell he was really impatient with me for calling. I didn’t ask if my girlfriend was there, but I knew she had to have been, and the next day at school I heard Chris telling another friend that Katherine had come over, and the two of them had made out, and that she had given him a blow job.

                                                                                                                                      And while this made me literally sick to my stomach with jealousy, it also occupied my imagination for months whenever I masturbated. It has stuck with me since.

                                                                                                                                      2. Because I love sheer tights, nice dresses, high heels, and such things, but my wife does not, it feels like she is angry with me every time we go out and she has to look especially pretty. She is already very feminine, but I think when she dresses up she looks exquisite.

                                                                                                                                      In any case, I end up imagining her frustration with me to lead to sexual frustration, and so to her thinking that another man who didn’t make such demands would be better. Then my mind starts to imagine her going out with some other man, but choosing of her own accord to wear the very things I love, except for him only.

                                                                                                                                      Both of these factors have been a part of my desire for about 30 years.

                                                                                                                                      • #30445
                                                                                                                                        Bellaazz

                                                                                                                                          Thanks for sharing your story and very interesting to me. Once in college I caught my girlfriend, with whom I was exclusive with, cheating on me and even though I was jealous and humiliated, I couldn’t help but find myself turned on by it. It made me ashamed or even mad to feel that way but it was true. Now looking back, I can see I was just a cuckold trying to get out. LOL

                                                                                                                                      • #30861
                                                                                                                                        Anonymous

                                                                                                                                          My wife and I have a fabulous sex life, but think it is time for her to take a younger lover (not too young – late twenties/early thirties) so she can really enjoy the experience of a new, rock hard cock. I know she was a little slutty before she met me, and I know she enjoys the texture and feel of a new hard cock. I want to see her body quiver as she uses her expertise on her lover, then trains him to make love to her properly – and therefore, train him how to make love to all the woman that follow, including his wife when he settles down. It will be wonderful to see her , first in charge, then slowly lose control and give into her orgasms, before finally pulling him in tight and letting him explode inside her. I also know (although she denies it), she will finally give into temptation and reward him by closing her mouth around him when he cums… may be not on the first few occasions, but she will finally crave the feeling of his throbbing cock explode in between her lips. I still remember the first time she made me cum in her mouth and he gentle moan as I approach my orgasm, and would love to see her lover experience that too, as well as the look in her eyes as his cock explodes and he moans with pleasure.

                                                                                                                                        • #30946
                                                                                                                                          Anonymous

                                                                                                                                            I’m a cuckold because my wife and I had a somewhat restrained sexuality and since three or four years unfortunately I have become more and more impotent and can only satisfy her orally.
                                                                                                                                            That means I have problems getting really hard, so it is enough for sex and to inseminate her is also no longer possible and makes us helpless and sometimes sad.
                                                                                                                                            I know she needs a nice men who gives her the sexual attention back she deserves, who gives her the feeling of being sexually attractive and she needs nice hard cocks who fuck her very well and persistent as she needs and deserves.
                                                                                                                                            I know to give her the freedom and let try other men is the best way for us and I would love to help her to find a loving man who gives her everything and makes her happy. Also with beautiful inseminations. Nothing makes her more happy than this feeling.
                                                                                                                                            So we talked together about her needs and desires and because she thinks often about a good solution she also loves the idea more and more of trying it out with other men.
                                                                                                                                            But she also absolutely needs deep feelings for him to relax completely.
                                                                                                                                            It’s not a problem for me because I am not jealous and I don’t envy her happiness and I would wish her happiness, joy and a lot of fun.
                                                                                                                                            So we hope we would feel happy with that lifestyle in the future.

                                                                                                                                            • #30951
                                                                                                                                              Bellaazz

                                                                                                                                                This is a great thing you are giving her. I am much the same way as you, know I cannot provide my wife the sex she needs. She too wanted to feel for him and be able to relax completely with him and we have found this. I hope you do too !

                                                                                                                                                • #30986
                                                                                                                                                  Anonymous

                                                                                                                                                    Thank you. I think this is how the love of a loving husband should be. Caring for the wife’s well-being and to take care of her needs and her love feelings as the most important things in the marriage.
                                                                                                                                                    I would say men, who allows their wifes to be natural and to have love feelings for her lover are husbands with much braver and stronger feelings of love for their wifes.
                                                                                                                                                    I congratulate you that your wife has such an intimate emotional relationship to her lover that gives her much more satisfaction. Enjoy this intimate feelings between her and him. They are wonderful and natural. And someday she’ll notice how happy you made her.

                                                                                                                                                  • #31009
                                                                                                                                                    Bellaazz

                                                                                                                                                      Thank you. Yes, I agree it is a very wonderful and natural thing. Once couples can get by jealousy & social taboos, I believe they’d find it is a completely natural feeling for wives to desire other men sexually. I’m very happy to be her devoted cuckold

                                                                                                                                                    • #31036
                                                                                                                                                      Anonymous

                                                                                                                                                        Many people outside do not understand that women are not made by nature for monogamy.
                                                                                                                                                        It was imposed on them by society so that the man could control the lineage of the offspring.
                                                                                                                                                        If everything went naturally, many women would certainly have a lot of men in turns to find the right one for the pregnancy.
                                                                                                                                                        I saw that a woman actually has several needs that one man alone often cannot satisfy.
                                                                                                                                                        As I saw a women needs three different men:
                                                                                                                                                        1. A woman needs a caring husband who who cares for her and is faithful. He is a man for her mental well-being, who understands her feelings and wants the best for her.
                                                                                                                                                        2. A woman needs a lover who can satisfy her sexually. This does not have to be the same man, nor is it required of her. Because it is often not possible to be a loving, caring and a sexually dynamic, lustful man in one person. Either you are more one or the other type of man.
                                                                                                                                                        I’m the loving and caring man, so I can’t give her all she sexually needs what she can get from a real lover. Of course, she can also fall in love with him. That is natural and always ok for me because I want her happiness.
                                                                                                                                                        3. A man who is a good father and a man who cares for her children, no matter which man has fathered them.
                                                                                                                                                        This is very common with families today. But the best husband wants her happy and if she wants a child with a lover, she should be able to have one.
                                                                                                                                                        Unfortunately it is not always financially viable these days but it would be ideal if it could be so.
                                                                                                                                                        If we could live naturally I would feel happy if she would tell me that she was pregnant by a lover and she absolutely wants his baby.

                                                                                                                                                      • #31062
                                                                                                                                                        Bellaazz

                                                                                                                                                          I couldn’t agree with you more. I definitely see myself as a number 1 and number 3 on your list. I am just not able to be number 2 and my wife should not have to suffer or go without simply because I cannot supply the sex she deserves and needs. I am so happy to help her find this.

                                                                                                                                                        • #31107
                                                                                                                                                          Anonymous

                                                                                                                                                            You do it great. In our society self-sacrificing men are very rare. Men who know and appreciate their wife’s needs.
                                                                                                                                                            It is the same with me. I am definitely 1 and 3 too.
                                                                                                                                                            Because of my potency problems, it is not only difficult for me to finish the intercourse completely, but unfortunately it is also not possible for me to come inside and inseminate her. This is a big problem and it hurts me a lot not to cum inside my wife
                                                                                                                                                            because it should be an important part of a relationship and a woman needs male semen regularly for her health and wellbeing.
                                                                                                                                                            Because I love her, it would be great when she can feel passion again but also love from her lover and she has sex until the beautiful end when men inseminate her as it should be for a healthy woman.

                                                                                                                                                      • #30964
                                                                                                                                                        Ryan11

                                                                                                                                                          I’m new on here and really loved reading through these posts! My bf told me about his desire to be a cuckold about a year ago. We’ve been together for about 8 years since he was a junior in college. The first time we slept together I drunkenly told him that his penis was much smaller than any of the other guys i’ve been with. I recently found out that he was so turned on by that and still thinks about it. Sph is now a common part of our relationship and we both seem to love it. When he finally told me of his fantasies I was hesitant, but also somewhat relieved. I like being with well hung guys, and our relationship has grown so much now that we do this, including our sex life.

                                                                                                                                                          • #30968
                                                                                                                                                            Bellaazz

                                                                                                                                                              Welcome !!!! Often times it is a relief for both the cuckold and his wife. He doesn’t have to worry about not being able to satisfy her and her possibly going behind his back and she can be upfront about her needs and desires. At least this is the dynamic we have !

                                                                                                                                                          • #31003
                                                                                                                                                            Arno12

                                                                                                                                                              nach meiner OP kann ich meiner Frau nicht mehr den Sex bietetn den sie gewohnt ist und den sie liebt. Sie sagt auch, dass ihr hin und wieder doch der gewohnte Schwanz fehlt. Ich habe ihr einen gut gebauten Hausfreund angeboten, aber leider will sie keinen Fremden ranlassen.
                                                                                                                                                              Wer hat mir Tipps das zu ändern.

                                                                                                                                                              • #31006
                                                                                                                                                                motley

                                                                                                                                                                  Arno, she now knows that you are ok with her having a lover. In time she will find the man that suits her needs. you just need to be supportive and encouraging.

                                                                                                                                                                • #31011
                                                                                                                                                                  Anonymous

                                                                                                                                                                    Ich finde es ganz toll von dir dass du ihr einen Freund gönnst.
                                                                                                                                                                    Es brauxcht manchmal Zeit. Viel Zeit für eine Frau um diese Sache sacken zu lassen, denn viele Frauen wurden nicht so sozialisiert dass sie Sex mit einem anderen als Ausweg sehen. Sie glauben, es muss dann ohne gehen und merken nicht, dass es ihnen schadet und sie ihn brauchen um nicht manchmal unausstehlich zu werden. Guter Sex mit einem anderen hilf ihr ganz sicher und nimmt dir den Druck.
                                                                                                                                                                    Spreche andeutungsweise das Thema immer mal wieder an. Nicht zu forsch und manchmal nur durch die Blume. Wenn die Stimmung passt und die Gelegenheit. Sonst machst du mehr kapuut.
                                                                                                                                                                    Sie braucht Zeit weil in ihr programmiert ist, dass es nicht geht.

                                                                                                                                                                • #31105
                                                                                                                                                                  Small Dave

                                                                                                                                                                    I am a cuckold because I have a very small penis. It’s 2 inches when erect. When I was young I was an attractive man with a libido and wasn’t aware of just how small I was, or I was in denial, or my youthful sex drive overcame shame. And I’d do things like go skinny dipping, a nude theatre play, visit nudist beaches, play strip poker for which I was ill equipped. Anyway, I was constantly cheated on, dumped, humiliated, embarrassed, laughed at, scolded, scorned, cuckolded. All really seriously painful at the time. All now a memory bank of real life, lived cuckold fantasies. This is my body and my life. I can’t change what I am and what has happened to me. Being a cuckold means I accept myself. I wouldn’t change me for the world. I am submissive, but not pathetic. When we accepted my submissiveness and cuckold status my wife seemed to grow a foot taller, her cheeks became rosier and she walked with confidence. She made better decisions about work, life and business, became more assertive and calmer, she found time for herself where she hadn’t, she became happier. And that was before she had even decided whether to take a lover. By accepting my role she became all of that. That’s not pathetic. And I blossomed as well. I went from being the over compensating little dick stressed bad tempered control freak husband who cooks dinner resentfully like a martyr to being devoted, obedient, relaxed, accepting and cooking with pride and joy. She is as kind to me as she is cruel. In the dynamics of relationship between her, her lovers and myself as the cuckold I am as important. And I think I get more pleasure

                                                                                                                                                                  • #31121
                                                                                                                                                                    4DecadeCuck

                                                                                                                                                                      My wife has several boyfriends. And that’s the way it should be. Just because she is married to me doesn’t mean she has to be monogamous. I am monogamous because I love her and because I have a very small penis that neither men or women want. My wife has even told me that compared to other men, sexually, I have a lot of work to do, and a lot to learn. She has told me that my penis size isn’t important to her, because “sex is what other men are for.”

                                                                                                                                                                      I love seeing my wife and other men make love. I love seeing her smile and the glow on her face. She loves sex, and the men she gets with are very good at it!

                                                                                                                                                                      All of my wife’s boyfriends are very well sized, and I like that they can do so much for and with her that I can’t. The other men are incredible. They can do her several times in a night. And many are younger. Her longest term boyfriend, we recently found out, is very wealthy. My wife has hooked up with so many really good men. And it pleases me that they want her so much. And that she wants them just as much.

                                                                                                                                                                      My wife is always happy when she knows that she’s going to hook up with one or more of her boyfriends. She knows how important these other men are to our marriage. And how happy it makes me to see her and them together.

                                                                                                                                                                      When we have gone to her boyfriends in other states and stayed with them for a week or so, my wife is their wife while we are there. And I like that. I am the friend. I watch them kiss and cuddle and I watch her suck them and I watch them make love to her. And I really enjoy seeing my wife happy the way they make her.

                                                                                                                                                                      It’s awesome seeing a couple so happy together, especially when the woman in that couple is my wife.

                                                                                                                                                                      • #31127
                                                                                                                                                                        Bellaazz

                                                                                                                                                                          It is so refreshing to hear another person who is so self-aware and realistic & understanding as you are. I am similar in that I understand how my wife needs great sex and since I cannot provide it for her, I encourage and am so excited to see her get it from someone that can. Sure ideally I would be able to provide everything in a relationship to her but sexually I can’t and she needn’t have to suffer or do without. Sec is VERY important to her and we both get so excited when she can get what she needs & deserves. I am so proud of her & live watching her with her bulls. I do provide oral sec when she wants it even after sec with her partners so I am completely satisfied as well. Good luck to you & enjoy that wife of yours

                                                                                                                                                                      • #31262
                                                                                                                                                                        Alexthebean

                                                                                                                                                                          New here –

                                                                                                                                                                          I’m average sized and have very good stamina. I bring my wife to orgasm every time and we have amazing sex.

                                                                                                                                                                          Talks about her having sex with another man just naturally turned me on. Considering we have a solid relationship and I trust her she started having sex with other men. This was her chance to experiment with thicker men and she loves it and it turns me on to know that she has access to big dicks whenever she wants.

                                                                                                                                                                          I am not into being part of her adventure, only excited to hear about it afterwards. I am away for work a lot and it makes her feel good to be able to get good sex while I’m gone and I am all for that.

                                                                                                                                                                          She let’s me sleep with other women, when I do, these women love the sex but I personally found that the sex with my wife is always far better and the whole hotwifing makes our already amazing sex even better.

                                                                                                                                                                          I don’t know where we will go from here. It’s only been one year and we are quite young. The idea of chastity turns me on but the practicality is harder for me to accept, I just love penetrating my wife too much.

                                                                                                                                                                          We will see what the future will bring! For now she is starting to tease me much more than before and the sex life couldn’t be better.

                                                                                                                                                                          • #31300
                                                                                                                                                                            Bellaazz

                                                                                                                                                                              Welcome ! Sounds like a great arrangement you have going on with your wife. More of swinger than cuckolding but I can tell you that I used to be able to have sex frequently with my wife when I was young too. Sometimes things change as you get older and once i was not able to satisfy my wife with my tiny cock and longer, it felt only right to get into cuckolding. You may too someday…………

                                                                                                                                                                              • #31393
                                                                                                                                                                                Alexthebean

                                                                                                                                                                                  You’re right.. were still young and things may change!!

                                                                                                                                                                              • #33407
                                                                                                                                                                                Luvr

                                                                                                                                                                                  Alex, welcome to the community and the lifestyle. You two currently have an open lifestyle where both are exploring with other partners. This is ok, but it’s not cuckolding because cuckolding places the wife at the center of the experience and since you are not involved and just want to know about it after, you’re not very involved either.

                                                                                                                                                                                  Together, you playing with others and being somewhat disconnected from her play introduces more risk of this becoming less an extension of your relationship and something enjoyed outside of it.

                                                                                                                                                                                  If she were to restrain your penis and be responsible in when its worn, how long, and what your rewards are for giving her this control (including giving up other women while she still dates) you would then be a cuckolding couple and much closer as a couple for it.

                                                                                                                                                                                  All males, especially younger ones, have a very strong need for sex (or at least release) but it’s safe to be denied that release from a medical standpoint. Mentally, it’s this challenge which gives all of this meaning and gives your wife empowerment.

                                                                                                                                                                                  Denial requires a balance of suffering and reward. The solution to enduring forms of denial is to find the mechanisms and rewards to make it worthwhile to suffer for her. These rewards can be physical in nature, in terms of how you get release when given it as well as more mental/emotional benefits like knowing how much she values your denial and how much your penis being disabled helps her enjoy a thicker cock inside her.

                                                                                                                                                                              • #31327
                                                                                                                                                                                slaveofwife

                                                                                                                                                                                  I am a cuckold because its something within me that ive felt for a very long time. I am naturally very submissive. My wife is very dominant but needs some encouragement to see how this lifestyle can benefit her.
                                                                                                                                                                                  I am unable to satisfy her.

                                                                                                                                                                                  • #31340
                                                                                                                                                                                    Bellaazz

                                                                                                                                                                                      Don’t feel bad my friend. There are many of us like you. Perhaps you can give her that encouragement (or maybe she can see for herself from sites like this one) to help her see the benefits for you, her and your marriage ! Good luck !

                                                                                                                                                                                  • #31426
                                                                                                                                                                                    slaveofwife

                                                                                                                                                                                      thanks Bellazz,

                                                                                                                                                                                      I appreciate your support.

                                                                                                                                                                                    • #33248
                                                                                                                                                                                      AndiCuck

                                                                                                                                                                                        This is really simple to answer. I am a cuckold because after trying to have sex once before marriage I was so pitiful and tiny she told me that sex was not going to work for us at all. But we were and are madly in love with each other. So she told me we would still get married but I would be her cuckold and that I would never have sex with anyone but she would have sex with anyone she wanted. I had only one option which was to agree. So I did. And I would not change that decision for anything.

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                                                                                                                                                                                          Bellaazz

                                                                                                                                                                                            Well, good for you and I know how you feel. It is great that you accepted it and obviously it was the right decision for you since you said you have no regrets.

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                                                                                                                                                                                          40HSquirter

                                                                                                                                                                                            I didn’t consciously decide to be a cuckold. Before we were married, she cheated on me when she was on an exchange trip. I was told she had sex with him but we hadn’t had sex yet. After several weeks of separation we made up. We went to separate colleges, same thing happened. She begged me to come back and I did.

                                                                                                                                                                                            I caught her having an affair in our third of marriage. We argued and she told me that I was too small to satisfy her. She said that she deserved some one with a body equal to her’s. She weighed 110lbs and a 34FF 26 36 at the time. She so completely humilated me to the point I believed I could never satisfy any woman. For economic and social reasons, she did not want a divorce. She said she would keep her lover and I had to accept it.

                                                                                                                                                                                            I accepted my role as a good cuck. That was many years ago and several lovers ago. We are still married.

                                                                                                                                                                                            • #35628
                                                                                                                                                                                              Bellaazz

                                                                                                                                                                                                Since you have stayed married, I assume you are into being a cuck as much as she is cuckolding you. I would have made the same choice given your circumstances and made the best of it, which you seem to have done. Does she ever allow you to watch ?

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