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    • #17330
      iwannabecuck


        After our successful Riviera Maya vacation together, with our Bull, my wife already twice asked me if this is OK with me if our Bull will move and live with us on permanent basis.

        I did not realize that she was serious about this.
        I told my wife that this is OK to bring him over for a week or even a month stay to prolong her “honeymoon” with her boyfriend, but she find the right time ( my monthly chastity release following by a hand job) to bring this topic over again.

        To have live-in boyfriend, always comes with cons and pros.
        Pros: My wife will be properly fucked every day.

        Cons: We have detached house, but we’re living in a community and should follow their rules: – “Only children can live with their parents if they’re in school or in college.”
        Other Guests could live in our house no more than 3 month.

        My wife asked is we can rent out our basement officially to him.

        I told her that this will raise eyebrows questions among our neighbors, because in our community, we’re all professionals and extra income, like basement rental will look suspicious.

        Again, What we should tell our children when they will visit us: “This is your cousin from Arizona and he lives with us until he will found another job”?

        Financial worries: Will he contribute to our expensive? If yes, what part? (he has small condo and my wife already start looking to rent his condo out).

        And most importantly – If he will move with us, I definitely will gave up my marital bedroom space and relocate somewhere else in the house.
        Also, I feared that my wife will become less attentive to me.

        If someone of you have or had experience with live-in boyfriend, please share.

      • #17394
        MatureMUK

          not ideal from sound of it. wife has formed emotional bond and bull is happy enough to take advantage. ideally any bull should complement a couples relationship so both husband and wife need to be in agreement and have same aspirations etc.
          difficulties lay ahead if we proceed as you have outlined. for a situation where bull is living with you we need set time stays e.g. 2 weeks or so. say twice a year. then we can say he is a close friend whom has some time free but cannot accommodate you both so you have agreed to have him stay with you when he is able as it helps him financially as well. that way we reinforce our economic situation for our area. have a valid reason to have third man around. moving to spare room or even garage ? attic? is down to the relationship you have all agreed. we will of course get reduced attention from wife and if bull moved in full time we may find a we become fully displaced. thats embarrassing and opens up family to public ridicule etc though we all aware this sharing of wives is far more common than many realise . society sees it as taboo and reacts badly.

        • #17404
          Luvr

            The live-in situation is the unicorn of cuckolding. It’s more rare than couples who choose to become pregnant by their bull/boyfriend/Dom. The reasons for this are primarily the higher bar to pass in terms of personalities/schedules/lifestyles/work fitting that well together. This is a challenge for couples to work through, let alone adding a third.

            A bull without a job is a bum, not a bull. Forming a live-in situation out of need/necessity for a roof over one’s head is NOT the fitting motivation to make such a move as a couple. A bull who leaves his job to move in with a couple without having first found that new job, again, is NOT thinking and not making the best choices – nor is any couple who would be supportive of such irresponsibility.

            Last, but not least, a bull/boyfriend/Dom can spend a LOT of time with a couple without living with them.

          • #17409
            iwannabecuck

              Hi Guys,
              Thanks for your inputs.
              Just a little history and an update of what is going on:
              My wife met our Bull, Eric 1.5 years ago, and they’re together since.
              Eric is a good kid, 30 years old, have a steady job and financially more or less stable.
              My wife is almost 53, in a good shape and look sexy.
              Eric’s talented dick just fucked my wife’s brains out, not to mention her pussy. He was able to reach some hidden spots inside of her, which never been touched before. I never heard her very loud scream with any men she slept with.
              She even faints for 20-30 seconds during the sex, and needs to be slapped to regain consciousness.
              She is getting orgasm just being touched by Eric, and I witnessed it couple of weeks ago when Eric kissed my wife, while I pulled down her panties. Panties were completely soaked, and her juices flown down to her inner thighs.
              She is in love with Eric, and he also has some feelings for her.
              Anyway, It was my wife’s idea to bring Eric to our home permanently, not Eric’s. He is happy in his condo, probably, fucking someone else during his spare time, and meeting with us 3-5 times per week. My wife afraid that Eric could be her last permanent boyfriend of such type, so, she wants to keep him much closer to her.

              Now, an update: I talked a lot to my wife, trying to keep her concentrate on the subject, and finally, we had an agreement:
              Eric’s projected move into our house, if off the table. Instead, my wife is moving into Eric’s condo apartment for now. They will live as a couple. I’m completely cut off from participation in their sex life.
              Their relationship will be hidden from everyone. Me and my wife will be acting as normal, and participate in all activities with our friends and families. Also, She’s welcome to our house at anytime – alone, or with Eric.
              My wife has 6 month to decide what will be her next move. At the end of March, if my wife will continue to live with Eric, I’ll be free from chastity and free from my cuckold’s obligations.

              My wife, Liz, moved with Eric 2 weeks ago.
              We had incredible farewell night together – all three of us.
              I even had sex with my wife – only with condom.

              Today, Eric texted me, asking if I can take my wife somewhere this Saturday, and bring her back on Sunday.
              I asked him why? He replied that he should attend party with his friends and he is not comfortable to bring Liz along with him. I texted him, that it will be great, if Liz will go to the party with him, he can tell all his friend that Liz is married but her husband is aware of their relationship and fully support it. Let them ask Liz if her husband satisfied her in bed, and she will say “No”. You’ll have fun with Liz there, was my last text with him.
              Probably, I will be hear from him or from Liz soon.
              Will update you.

            • #17410
              Luvr

                I’m not even sure where to start with this…either this is complete fiction or you are the definition of a fool. I may sound harsh, but those are the only two options I see based on your last update. Your wife living with someone else isn’t cuckolding – it’s her leaving you and you being supportive of being their doormat/convenience. This isn’t what cuckolding should be about.

              • #17412
                iwannabecuck

                  Hi Luvr,
                  I wish, this would be a fiction or happened to someone else, but me.
                  Yes, my wife brains are totally fucked out. She might need to see a shrink, but, ironically, she is a trained psychologist herself. She is hysterical now, she’s calling me, crying, begging to forgive her, but she can’t live without Eric, and asked to not to be disturb for some time, as she needs to bring her thoughts together.
                  On the other hand, Eric is terrified and does not want any commitments, especially with women 23 years older than him. I believe, that Liz really need some time to properly measured everything.
                  I spoke with our children and ask them to call their Mom frequently (definitely, I did not mention the reason).

                  Luvr, possible you’re right. I could be a fool or a doormat, but I’m OK with any of Liz’s decision. If she will decided to divorce me, I’m fine with this to. Shit happens. No hard feelings.

                  When we started our cuckolding relationship 8 years ago, it was real fun.
                  Everything went exactly as per your guides, with a little variations, but very close.
                  I will update you….

                • #17926
                  Anonymous

                    My wife’s bull live in a house very close to us. He can come to our house whenever he likes to have sex with my wife. She never says no to him no matter how tired she might be.

                  • #17972
                    Cathy & Jerry

                      If your story is true and not just that “a story” then I have something to say concerning your problems. My wife has been seeing many lovers over the last 12 years and I’ve been cut off for six. She’s had many of these men stay with us for a few weeks at a time at the most but that’s it, for the reason that her lover tends to become a pain in the ass to us in several ways not worth mentioning.

                      She’s never thought about leaving the house to live with any of her lovers, but she’s stayed for a week or so with them at their homes or gone on a vacation with them for a few weeks pretending to both be married to each other (and society now has no problem with different last names because women keep their own names quite often).

                      If your wife is wanting to live with him then she’s become a little too attached and needs to end it with him or divorce you to be with him. But you say he’s not wanting this, so he needs to end it with her and if necessary she might need some counselling (they have to keep quiet about it, so you don’t have to worry about it getting out).

                      The Cuckold lifestyle is an amazing thing for those into it, and I understand the thrill for both of you when she’s getting all the great cock she wants, but there has to be guidelines created and followed. I would love to see my wife impregnated by another man and I’d be happy to care for the child as her/his father (and yes she’s reading this and smiling), but our lives would remain the same and we’d always be the “happy married couple” to everyone who knows us, and the “father” wouldn’t be moving in or my wife moving in with him. He’d be allowed to stay a few weeks as our guest, weekends etc but nothing more.

                      I understand how you feel about knowing your wife is being so well fucked that she’s having explosive orgasms that you couldn’t ever give her, that’s what it’s all about. But sex should be left as sex, nothing more. Your marriage should be even stronger since she’s being satisfied the way she needs to be, and you’re happy and satisfied knowing that she’s getting what she needs (and more than likely deserves).

                      In no way should your marriage be getting worse or non existent. If this can’t be corrected then she either needs help or a divorce is the only answer. I hope you two can correct this before it’s too late. Please let us know how this progresses, it could help many others who have gone this far and don’t want to say anything.

                    • #18038
                      iwannabecuck

                        Cathy & Jerry wrote:
                        <I understand how you feel about knowing your wife is being so well fucked that she’s having explosive orgasms that you couldn’t ever give her, that’s what it’s all about. But sex should be left as sex, nothing more.>

                        I did not have time to write during these couple of months.
                        My wife lived with her boyfriend at his condo for almost a month.
                        Then, he broke up with her on a sour note. Liz told him that she want to live with him on a permanent basis, and Eric panicked.
                        To get rid of her, he provoked huge fight with her. To do so, he came home one night with young girl, they briefly said “hi” to my wife, then immediately went to Eric’s bedroom, locked the door and start fucking.(Actually, my wife did the same to me with Eric in a past). So, my wife went furious. She tried to knock bedroom door out, she screamed, she cried and crushed few dinner plates, and etc.
                        When Eric emerged from the bedroom door, she started fight with him.
                        Eric grabbed my wife and throw her half naked out of his apartment. Then, he grabbed her belongings and throw them out as well.
                        To make this story short: My wife committed herself to a rehabilitation clinic.
                        She has serious nervous breakdown.
                        Unfortunately, she told our daughter that she is in love with Eric and want to divorce me. She did not tell her about our cuckolding lifestyle.
                        I had no choice but initiate divorce process, and because we had a prenup, it will be uncontested divorce. My wife agreed on every line of the divorce paper.
                        My life as a cuckold is over. No more chastity for me.
                        I had sex with other women during these months. If something comes up, I will update you.

                      • #18039
                        Cathy & Jerry

                          Oh wow, sorry to hear that. Some people can’t learn that sex is just sex and leave it at that. They become obsessed like your wife did, then it turns ugly. I hope everything works out for you, and don’t give up your hopes to be a Cuckold. There are many ladies out there who would give anything to have a man like you as a husband or boyfriend. I’ve met many men who are amazing lovers and would make terrific husbands/boyfriends but no matter how terrific they are or how rich they are I would never leave my amazing husband 🙂

                          Let us know if you find a lady who sparks your fancy and wants to be your cuckoldress/mistress 🙂

                          Good luck

                          Cathy & Jerry

                        • #23432
                          ahealthyguy4u

                            I’ve read this story and would like to say how unfortunate the ending is. Having said that, I would like to thank all involved, especially iwannabecuck and Luvr for sharing this with the (this) group.
                            Thank you,
                            ahealthyguy

                          • #23464
                            Jess

                              nice

                            • #37480
                              Alex_Newone

                                Love the stories with a happy ending, I know sounds terrible, but in the end, I think that iwannabecuck played his cards very well, He gave her the liberty to take the option that she believed was the best (To have her last boyfriend), She tried his “DREAM” and YES in the process she lost the floor, changing the real love his husband had for she for something unreal, thinking She that Eric would accept her as a girlfriend in LTR.

                                Hope she is now very well, that iwannabecuck is in better hands. And the family accept all the facts after divorce.

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