Wife’s former boyfriends

Hi, do any other husbands get excited hearing about and imagining their wife with ex boyfriends? I’m in my late 60’s, my wife is six years younger. I have some ED issues but get excited when I imagine her with former boyfriends and others. We met when she was 16 and she’d already had full sex with five boys and other experiences. I met her first boyfriend, who she’d grown up with, at a family friend’s funeral. They were all over each other with “remember when”. He is taller, more succesful and younger than me. He made various complimentary comments about how lucky I was to have had her as a wife etc and we should “come and stay with me in London.” He and his wife are living apart. She clearly has feelings for him, and when she told me about their relationship it turned me on. They went from “playing drs” to mutual masturbation and everything except full sex due to their ages at the time. However, it’s clear she wishes he’d been her first, and she regrets never having had sex with him. We both masturbated talking about him, and I hatched a plan. Maybe we should take up his offer of visiting him in London and going to a show, but I’d fake a migrane on the day, and tell her to go without me and enjoy herself. I’d message him to apologise and ask him to “make sure she had a good time.” followed up with some suggestive comments in the hope he’d realise I was happy for him to take take her. I just know if they were together and he kissed her she’d give herself to him. She had a lover some years ago which lasted for 18 months which I’d arranged so I’m pretty sure she would go with it. I just want her to enjoy herself and complete something which is still incomplete, giving me excitement too. Thanks for reading, Paul