Re: Alpha Cucks

Very useful comment from Luvr even thought we do not see eye to eye on all things.There is a type of, lets, say idea about that equates cuckolding in it’s most pure form to a sort of voyeur come dominant topping from the bottom, dressed slut whore wife type scenario. I eluded to this above. It is closely related to the hotwife phenomena where if not careful could become abusive.As I stated above if the woman enjoys the liberation and the permission to be a slut and the man likes the show it could work quite well. However I concur with Luvr that cuckolding in it’s pure form is something different. I do not agree that it is as deep as a latent biological need, there is something more related to our social needs involved. I believe our need for connection is much stronger than is given credit for in our society. The rise of what has been called the nuclear family man wife and children in a seperate unit to the exclusion of others is one factor. In the UK the rise of the welfare state, (not a bad thing for the control of disease and so on) has isolated people from the need for community assistance.Very often people like me live quite family centric lives with few friends calling. My wife who does not work currently has little opportunity to interact with other males and no other males have any impact on her life. However I believe women and men need interation with members of their own and the opposite sex regulalry in order to function properly. I say all this as I believe these societical norms are so ingrained now they are creating lonliness and needs which can manifest sexually. Biologically women do not display when they are fertile neither they nor the males know very often. Evolutionary biologists do not have a reason for this. However the fact that the woman does not know her fertile time and neither does the man leads to sexual recreation. Some have proposed that we may have evolved like this to insure close social bonds as the woman assisted the men by entertaining their sexual needs. If true, and this is a big huge step, there may be a desire among women to entertain men ( ladies please forgive my assumption as that is all it is ) However couple even a small latent desire with a huge amount of social lonliness and a new phenomena may arise. The female desire for contact with more than one man could arise quite strongly and would manifest sexually as sexual entertainment as the way to connect. Hence cuckolding is born. Then lets look at the male. What we know about males is their strong desire for sexual entertainment. There are well documented cases of powerful men being tumbled by their sexual desires.These desires are sharpened by masturbation another form of sexual entertainment. If my assumption is near correct, women desire male social contact ( some would say this is biologically based and associated with child rearing) I would say it may be but over the last 500,000 years or so the biological bit has been well submerged under the social nature of people. In fact we may be biologically social as in herd animals such as elephants or wolves. We are not however wolves or elephants but we may have started off like that and the desire to connect may still be there.Again an assumption, but if correct the woman would flirt with the males and offer sex to those she liked most in order to keep them close. My wife carried this out with at least one man. So, what is this telling me/us if true. Firstly I have met a good few women and I have found 100% of the time that women flirt as in they will in some cases unconsiously and almost immediatley send out hidden sexual signals such as playing with her hair and so on. All women I know love talking to intersting men of all ages. Lots of older men can forge realtionships with young women simply by being interesting to them. Women do not judge men by the size of his cock or his pectoral muscles. A dull uninteresting bull will get nowhere against a wimp who makes them laugh, sorry bulls.If you want to have sex with a woman make yourself interesting to her and listen to her needs socially and be genuinely interested in her and her children her pets and so on the things she cares about and she will want you in her social circle for ever. So where does this leave cuckolding. I am not sure. It is no secret women will offer sex to men they like. Must we as males ask ourselves where we get our kicks from in seeing our wives with other men. Is it a comfort to share some of the responsibility of living with a complex person as is the human female. Are females naturally dominant in that they offer the sex we need and cannot get anyother way. Have we masturbated ourselves and trained our minds to want more fantasy . I would love a reply Great subject