Re: My Girlfriend and her boss

@matmagic99 said:

Thanks for your response. I find that I am not interested in chastity devices. I also am seemingly inconsistent (however, not as I see it) in that I am often jealous of her talking and flirting with friends, but would like her to flirt and and have sex with strangers. I’m a little stuck there, I guess, but it makes sense to me. Any thoughts?

Your reaction to her flirting with friends happens because you feel more threatened by it. The problem with jealousy is when you exhibit jealousy (behave in ways which make it apparent to her or others) that you’re jealous, what you’re doing is expressing distrust in her decisions and actions. I’m sure that’s not what you mean to say, but that’s the net result. Your encouragement to flirt with others and desire she not flirt with friends or others closer to you is also an attempt to exert control – again, a trust issue.
You either trust her with expanding your sexual horizons as a couple or you don’t. If you don’t, stop encouraging her and focus on yourselves until you can.