Re: A serious problem I face as a cuckold , please advise me

Hi I sympathise with you. I am not as experienced as you and indeed my wife never entered into a ds relationship but similar has happened to me. My wife claimed to love me but took a lover. having read her phone messages she was very intense with him want ing to hold him kiss him and so on. She does not kiss me at all but claims to love me if pushed. She did not want to leave me nor did she want me to leave her. I struggled with this for years and can only find one explanation . Women only love alpha men by that I men men who they have not domesticated or made into pets. A woman’s love is very special and only given to selected men. When they love a man it is entirely different to the affection or attention a cuckold feels. A cuckold receives a certain amount of sexual atention but does not experience the joy of being loved by someone, that is totally different. I have been loved by a woman and know what it feels like and it is not what I feel from my cuckoldress. Sadly we cuckolds may find ourselves in marriages where we are not really loved but make the best of it. Imagine if you had never eaten chocolate but the taste and the experience was described to you. No matter how much it was described it would not be the same as eating it for yourself. The bull is eating the chocolate in this comparison, you or I will never know what that is like with this woman. I suspect you have forgotten what it is like to be really loved by a woman to be sort of selected for love and made special. I have almost forgotten and almost expect I will never taste that again. Cuckolding gives you a thrill which covers for the lack of love. It works while it lasts. If you ask me what will happen in your relationship I would say for her boredom will settle in She may just leave it at that and stop being interested in sex or she will look for love. A woman needs to love simple as that whereas a man needs to be loved. I would say from my experience a woman’s need to love is greater much greater than her need to be loved. To some extent women receive more general love than men in day to day life. Men really want to be loved and by love I mean made to feel special by someone else. I personlly believe , and some would disagree, that most cuckoldresses are just normal women who for whatever reason found themselves with men they do not love. As time goes on they simply need a man they can love and will play any game they have to to get that feeling even if this means playing at cuckolding.Cuckolds like me find themselves with women who do not love them and learn to make the best of a very bad situation by sexualising it. It is good for me that sites like this exist otherwise I would suffer in silence at least I can fantasise that there is some biological or sociological reason for my situation and for some crazy reason that thought is sexual.My wife is exactlylike your partner when she is not with someone or seeing someone she is submissive and would like me to be dominant but that is only frustration she is making a decent hand at trying to make it work as she would like. This leads to more frustration which I would be sure spils over into domestic life. When a woman doe snot love a man it will not work simple as that no matter what you do. I would bet that most cuckolding scenarios end with the breakup of the marriage or coupling when the wife /partner runs off with the bull.