Re: Cuckolding as a way to maintain a long distance relationship

It’s not topping from the bottom when you assert yourself to prevent behavior which would endanger health, safety, or the relationship. Having one Dom is the absolute correct perspective. A relationship can contain more than one bull, or a Dom and one or more bulls even, but more than one Dom will create chaos for all. As you already know, there are a lot of guys who confuse being bossy or seeing to only their own interests as being dominant. Some of them are simply inexperienced/ignorant, which can be fixed, while others are just douche bags. Be quick to tell them apart.

As much as she doesn’t want to feel split between two of you, that’s a necessity to some degree. If she’s not split between you, you’re not involved. You can (and most likely will be) involved differently, receiving different parts/types of her attention than he is, which makes it easier on her, but any good or even great experience comes with a price. She cannot expect to have a loving life partner/cuckold and a bed-warming Dom at no cost of effort for herself.

Given your time constraints, perhaps one venue of sharing in this experience is to have her blog here about her relationship as it starts and grows. This would enable her, or even her Dom, to post here when they are able and for you to read it when able while also helping other couples find this path together.