Re: what to do? discovered husband’s interest in cuckolding

Thank you DutchMichael, I read each article and could find pieces of it that can apply to ‘us’ as a couple as we have been, and possibly see pieces that could apply if we were more open. I still will not hesitate to say that what confuses me the most, is his past attitude…totally complete jealously of me, disliking any other man’s looks at meor expressions of admiration of my appearance, and also his imagined perception of me looking at other men’s bodies. If my eyes lingered on another man for more than a few seconds, I was doing something wrong. I do realize our intimacy needs alot of spicing up. His type A personality plus a touch of ADHD , I can see how he became bored and unstimulated. I have a very shy nature, which was fine with him at first, but he has tried to get me to be more vocal and expressive especially in the boudoir.