Re: Cuckolds,should we all be very careful with all of this

Thank you for your reply and I do appreciate your opinions, they are helpful.

You have talked a lot about how it is for you and the difference in you and me. You mentioned politics and peoples different views which is interesting as politics actually attempts to find a workable solution to problems by discerning how people are and what are their views in a generalist way. Governments do not legislate generally to help some individual with his or her need or problem. The purpose of legislators is to find out what benefits the greater number or the common good, the difference on emphasis being the political philosophy followed by the politician. Right wing politicians may say a rising tide raises all boats therefore assist big business and we will all be better off, whereas a left wing politician may start at the bottom by the idea that assisting the bottom will also eventually assist the top and everyone in the middle. The emphasis is different but the generalisation re people is the same.

I admit I am generalising re people in this narrow subject. I did say there were enlightened people who are liberated enough to do their own thing on this. I am addressing the majority of vanilla folk who generally live their lives to set patterns often laid down for them.

The value of this site is that it opens up channels for those who have not perhaps made a success of a, traditional, for want of a better word, relationship. It also gives a forum to people in respect to the possibility of viewing life differently in terms of multi partner relationships. In order that we do this though I believe we must look at what is traditional and what is perhaps normal human behaviour. For example what generally is the views of women and sex and how if at all they differ with men, What part does the physical reality play i.e. penis size and so on.

It may be, and you could be correct, that cuckolding is an individual choice by people who have strong relationships and wish to experiment with multi partners. If that is the case and there is no natural process taking place, by which I mean cuckolding is not a natural process at any level, and should remain as a fetish.

If it is a fetish then this is a fetish site for those who use sex as entertainment which of course is perfectly ok, but it is not a site which explores human behaviour to find an alternative or new way to live. In other words it is not a lifestyle site and cuckolding is not a lifestyle but a form of sexual entertainment.