Re: Is there something I am not getting

i can understand where op is coming from.  for a long time i thought that too.  how can individuals in a cuckold arrangement ever be expected to stay together if wife is finding sex and companionship elsewhere?  it didn’t make sense.

i’m still not convinced cuckolding is healthy.  i listen and speak to guys asking to be humiliated in all sorts of ways by their wife and be treated with total disregard.  i can’t understand it.  But i’m no psychologist and in no position to judge the health of someone else’s relationship.  i have a more open mind to it now.

I’m not sure what type of relationship i’m in now, frankly the labels confuse me.  i have sex with other men with hubby’s complete approval and encouragement.  sometimes he gets involved sometimes he watches me enjoy myself.  i do it for my own pleasure and also play a performance for hubby’s pleasure.  for me it’s about experiencing a more intense kind of sex.  it’s not something i yearned for, it’s something hubby gave me the idea for.  together we built a fantasy of what we liked and i’m living out that fantasy for our shared enjoyment.

i don’t expect we’ll be doing this forever.  just as long as we both find it exciting is good enough for me.