Re: Frustrated Cuckold

all is not lost.

i agree with Stokie’s comments on your situation and your initiation into this lifestyle is not “normal” by any means. BUT there still could be light at the end of the tunnel. my wife and i have been in this lifestyle for 15+ years and we’ve been through several short periods of time where i was not involved in her relationship in any meaningful way. this was usually a case of her BF either just not being into the cuckold / Hotwife scene or because i wasn’t included in the very beginning of her dating someone and it became hard for her to broach the subject at a later time. 

this lifestyle is definately enhanced when all three parties are involved in some manner. the cuck is not always present but that’s ok and sometimes that good ole “cuckold angst” is sufficient while awaiting your Hotwife’s return. but for your wife to not even share details or her thoughts on the subject lead me to believe that you may be the only one in the relationship seeking a cuckold lifestyle. this may change for you, but it’s been my experience that it will not change until she finds a new BF and that the 3 of you go into the arrangement honestly. i know it will sound counter-intuitive to your wife – being open and honest while beginning a sexual relationship but it will make a world of difference, at least in our case it does. good luck!!