Re: Who pays?

It has always been my policy to pay for dates when I’m present and it’s a date. If it’s something more casual – meeting a new couple for the first time, then splitting is an option, but the last thing any self-respecting bull (let alone Dom) should do is leave the impression he’s a leech on the couple and cannot support himself.

If I mandate some changes in clothing for her I do expect the husband to be paying for those but I will also contribute to her new clothing. As with all other aspects of this lifestyle – everyone should be involved and have a share in things.