Re: Wife has to ‘feel’ for the Bull

Hello J,

It sounds like you are in a strong committed relationship. I read about some couples who embark on this path after an affair and that sounds like there are issues within the marriage. Although I guess it works for some couples.

My wife has met many guys with my consent. Some just once, others a few times. For me being a cuckold the most intense emotions come from when my wife is with a man she really likes. The more times she sees him the more she will likely feel something for him. Does that worry me? No. Will she ever run off with him? No. Because our marriage is strong and her being with another guy, maybe having feelings for him will never break us up. In fact it makes us stronger because we can explore this lifestyle and enjoy it. My wife does have feelings for her current boyfriend. I welcome it. The fact that she might love him also doesn’t concern me. Because together we have everything…she has another man to give her pleasure and this in turn gives me pleasure. Why would she leave to give all that up?

Its ok for her to have some feelings..if your marriage is strong to begin with..it will get stronger.