Reply To: Desperately need help ….

thank you for posting

the issue it seems is that your husband does not want this in reality, but only fantasy. And you have given in to his fantasies, but he has not given in to yours.

I have over 10 years experience and at this point, i think you should stop worrying about his fantasies and focus on your own.

What do you want? What kind of sex do you want? do you crave? what type of man do you want to have sex with?

Once you figure that out, then you can talk to your husband about his desires. I also recommend, putting him on what is a “cum schedule”

Basically, you limit the number of times he is allowed to cum during the week. Id start with one time per week for now. you pick the day. You can also make this work by buying him a penis cage and locking his penis up.