Reply To: Feelings between the wife and the other guy

I have always had LTRs and there has always been a high level of passion between the wife and I. And while there is a dimension of love, it is in the context of the passion that can only exist within the uniqueness of the wife/lover relationship.
There is a distinct difference between the love that a wife feels for the man she enjoys the most physically and emotionally exciting life with and the love she shares with the man who drives 2 hours at 2 Am in the morning to fix the brother in laws car that broke down.
Fortunately, women are better able to compartmentalize relationships on multiple levels and so confused feelings are not often a problem-which is why wives should have lovers if they choose.