Reply To: Feelings between the wife and the other guy

If the wife is seeing only one bull and the relationship has been going on for a while (a year plus steady in our case), the hotwife may find herself craving an emotional connection with her Bull. Without this connection, even the best sexual relationship with a Bull may become stale and start to seem pointless to her.

The Bull is a person with feelings and insecurities too and for the hotwife will at some point start wanting to engage with Bull at an emotional level. To ignore him in this way would be to treat him like an inanimate object, something to be used just for sexual pleasure.

To the concern of this emotional connection may lead to the wife replacing her husband with her Bull: a self-aware hotwife will realize that making her Bull her full time relationship would ruin what makes that relationship so appealing to her in the first place. What makes the relationship with the Bull special is that this relationship is a respite from the challenges of everyday life. Add those burdens to the Bull (and most great Bulls know better than to want that, right?) and the spark would fade quickly and you’d be right back to craving the excitement of something new and different.