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September 19, 2018 at 5:26 pm #22594Alex
Hi,
I recently discovered that cuckolding is a thing and that I’m not a weird person. It took some time, for me to discover about this lifestyle. Now that I know cuckolding is a fetish of mine I have no idea what to do next. How do I tell my fiancée? Is there an appropriate time to tell someone that you’re into cuckolding? We’re getting married soon and I want to share this fetish with her and not have to hide it for the rest of my life.
My fiancée is open-minded, to some extent, and I know we’ve been talking about trying something knew, but I can’t imagine she’s talking about cuckolding. When I ask her about what she meant by “something new” she doesn’t answer.
Thank you for your help.
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September 20, 2018 at 5:21 am #22597MatureMUKParticipant
she is feeling inhibited and. that common .bear in mind all her life been told by society and religion that when married a husband and wife ought to remain true to each other! even though that goes against nature itself.
ideally she needs to discover a site such a this. read . ask questions. etc but ensure she not ‘hit on’ by many men whom seek an easy quick fu ck.
lot of emotions involved and it’s not for everybody. where it works it can be both rewarding and addictive. all sorts of levels .form simple odd affair on holiday when hubby turns a blind eye. to more in depth relationships that can be to outsiders. shocking. you are correct in not wanting to hide it rest of your life ..though she too deserves. to be. full aware your outlook on life even if not sharing it at moment. sometimes it takes area before a wife or even GF will suddenly decide. she wants to try this lifestyle. perhaps we can suggest she might like to visit a chat room ? when she asks what sort..we can say. theres one we have been chatting in that seems interesting but its an adult room. if she declines ( likely) we may try leaving the site page open so she can ‘find’ what. you have been reading etc. at that point we either find its totally abhorrent or.. we have opportunity to expand. our relationship at later date. good luck an d if you hr she has questions. do drop me a line . I eventually always answer 🙂 -
September 24, 2018 at 5:18 am #22640Gracie
@Alex – First, don’t talk to her about “cuckolding” per se, as that makes it about you and not about her. You said she doesn’t answer when you ask her about what she means by trying something new. That is because she is afraid her answer will hurt or upset you.
So, how do you get around this? YOU bring it up. You tell her that you love her with all your heart, and you will remain faithful to her always. But then tell her you appreciate and even admire her for having a sexual history. Let her know you are not the jealous type (even if you are, keep it under control or you will have lost). Let her know that you are absolutely okay with not only anything in the past, but also with her having sex with others going forward, that you will cherish her no matter what.
You may wish to expand this a bit, by saying things like you like her dressing very sexy as you want others to know just how much of a sexy woman you have that you are going to marry. You will have to gauge from her reaction to your suggesting she have sex with others as to just what/how/if you want to say anything further right at that time.
Don’t carry it TOO for on the first discussion. Let what you say sink in a bit with her for a day or two, then talk about it again. DON’T bring up the word “cuckold” until you are well into several discussions and she seems very open to having sex with others.
BTW, you haven’t given us any information about the two of you, such as age, appearance, etc. That would be nice to have. If she has a nice body that would look very hot in an extremely short skirt, then give her a gift of an ultra short micro mini-skirt she can wear, or a top that accentuates her lovely tits, etc.
Gracie – Chick with a Dick
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November 2, 2018 at 11:00 am #23076Stacy Beaumont
Maybe you should just suggest a threesome with her and concede that it can even be a guy the first time. That way she isn’t thinking that you are doing it just to get some strange.
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November 2, 2018 at 7:35 pm #23077Alex
Great Idea.
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November 12, 2018 at 5:26 am #23184Gracie
Alex, how about an update?
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