Whose idea was it for her and her lover to go bareback?

In my (long) cuckolding experience going bareback and/or the idea of going bareback was initiated quite a few times by a different person in the cuckold-triangle. Sometimes it was her, sometimes it was her lover and sometimes it was me as the cuck. Sometimes it was she and her lover that had at the same time that wish and sometimes it was me as the cuck together wit her that had at the same moment that idea. Once it was she, her lover and myself as the cuck that decided she could go bare with him on a moment when I was watching her and her lover going to have penetrative sex. Her lover was taking a condom to put it on his cock while she was looking at me with me with craving eyes followed by her lover’s look to me if it was really necessary for him to put on a condom. I then simply nodded and we all three agreed and conclude he could go bare.

It indeed implicates mental and emotional as practical aspects and made evolve the relational aspects in our cuckold-triangle. And it also made enhance emotions for her, her lover and for me that she and her lover were going to a higher level of connection on an emotional aspect but also the aspect of biology but also of power where her lover was dominating her by inseminating her, she allowing it and also for me as a cuck allowing it but also submitting to het wish and the power of het lover.

For me, it came as a surprise. We always had reclaiming sex after the monthly swinger party. My wife and a younger black schoolteacher had started going to a bedroom alone at the parties. I had witnessed their first time but after that they went alone. He had a 9-inch-thick uncut cock. She couldn’t get enough. The one rule we had was strict condom use. When we got home, I went down on her only to find a pussy full of cum. I asked what happened. She said they were making out and he was inside her before she realized he didn’t have a condom on. She said it felt so good she couldn’t stop. In fact, she said they didn’t stop until he came twice inside her. She told me to eat her and I did. Afterwards, I enjoyed a loose very slick pussy. She told me he had asked her to come to his house alone during the week since they were both teachers on summer break.

Lola did this with her very first guy and it was from fuck number 1. The plan was for condoms and I had purchased them. But he said he preferred the natural and she was so hot for this lad 20 years my junior, she willingly went along with it. She sold it to me as the opportunity for me to clean her lol
They were a bf/gf for about a year and one preg scare. In retrospect though, she wishes she had kept it to keep him in her life at least. But he got another girl preg about the same time and this broke my poor wife’s heart.
Emotions are not to be played with lightly.