Reply To: Finally Told My Wife, She is hurt by what I said

I was checking your profile, to find out more things about you two, but nothing found. I understand both of you are in your late 40’s and this is really a nice age. I think you are wise enough and your marriage is secure enough so you can speak freely with your wife In my opinion, no any wife will ever accept from the beginning that she enjoy having better sex with another guy, or feeling as a slut doing this, but as it said , in any woman is a hidden slut. In my opinion , you have to provoke her to an honest discussion, and explain her clearly, that you are not interested in having sex with another woman, and only because you love her very much, you want her to have the best sex possible. And as long as she is happy and satisfied, you will be VERY happy, and very excited. You may be surprised at her reaction, if she will understand how serious you are, and that you speak from your heart. But, as I said, is just an opinion. Best of luck.