Reply To: Need some pointers for the next step

Hello Everyone,
Our quick bio: Married 28 yrs, empty nest, time to try some new thing in the bedroom/hotel room.
Husband’s fantasy initially, but wife has recently embraced the idea.
We have met a man we like online. My wife has been chatting extensively with him and feels comfortable enough to meet him in person.
Our only rule is that we will be together for each encounter. The potential Bull is ok with this.
Do you have any tips, Do’s/Dont’s that you can pass along.
Or maybe share experiences of your first meetings?

From what I’ve read here and on other sites we’re thinking of the following scenario; Meeting in a restaurant or bar, and set a rule that nothing will happen on the first meet.
After that we can see how everyone feels. Does this sound reasonable?