Falling in Love

I can only give you a some feed back based on our past experiences and because I am unconnected and not engaged in your events. However these things always come down to individuals so you and your Hotwife are best to judge what is transpiring and where it should go.

It may seem very quick to be making such emotional statements to each other however there is always significant excitement in a cuckold environment and a euphoria to any lustful relationship. It can get translated quickly into such a way of thinking so it cannot be dismissed. Love is many things to many people and has several phases in my opinion, the first full of lust and desire as we have all probably experienced with our wife’s when we courted them.

Should we assume you are also engaged with the Bull, as in you have meet him and he engages with you. Or does he know about you but has never meet or interacted with you? Your Hotwife has a responsibility to try and disengage herself for a moment and make some clear headed decisions as to where this is going, what she wants from the relationship with her boyfriend and discus what you want and how it effects you. If she is able to think this through and discuss it with you and continue knowing the aims and objectives as a cuckold couple then why should you not then both embrace the dynamic as it develops. First agree it together. Any solid cuckold marriage will then be very fulfilling. If one party is not happy with the aims then both of you need to decide what is more important!

Seeing your Hotwife falling in love with another man is the ultimate angst for a cuck but can be acceptable to some / many cucks as the ultimate aim (it is in my case however much it hurts to watch the sweet pleasure of Her happiness). You have to have great trust in your wife to manage this and to ensure as some say, he is “always her boyfriend but she is always your wife”.

Be careful not to get unbalanced emotionally otherwise you may well pollute your own cuckoldry experience and make it one she does not want to repeat, therefore discussion, balance and level headedness is need even if cuckolding is an emotional high for us cuck’s. Any decent LT relationship has with another man should have strong element ts of attraction at a physical and emotional level otherwise they are not relationships in the full sense, but one offs which work for some people and not others. My point here is that a cuck must accept that LTR with a Bull should reflect the emotional maturity and warmth of our wife’s because that is who they are and with whom we have fallen in love with. Good luck

very good article . lot of truth and wisdom there. hope it gets a lot of reads.

It’s VERY common for a hotwife to “fall in love” with her Bull. He is finally the dominant, confident, and skilled lover she has been looking for and she may suddenly regret “settling” for the mediocre husband she married. Plus she is experiencing new feelings she hasn’t felt in a long time, maybe ever. I’ve had several hotwives declare their love for me and had these experiences happened to me when I was a younger man I could’ve gotten in a lot of trouble but luckily by the time I was a Bull I was mature about relationships (I’ve also had single unattached women do the same so it was familiar). A confident man who knows how to make a woman cum over and over is pretty much guaranteed to run into this.

What you should do is just accept what she’s saying, but ask her to visualize everything about a relationship with her Bull. She will realize that it’s not everything she imagines it to be and that her relationship with you has been built on a lot more. This is the best way to “break the spell” and speaking as a Bull – you do want the spell broken. We are not here to break up or disrupt relationships, we are here to strengthen them: to add something that both partners desire (whether that is sex or submission). Therefore whenever this happens I tell the wife to think more about what a relationship really means.

In fact, going on a vacation together has a very high likelihood of breaking the spell. Sex only takes you so far, and eventually they’ll have a fight. I did 🙂 I made up with her and fucked her several times after but it successfully broke the spell and she realized that she and I were incompatible in ways that were special to her and her cuck-husband. We are all still friends and they were grateful to me.

My wife loves her boyfriend and they often declare their love for each other in front of me.
I think that it’s a beautiful thing, sexual fulfillment isn’t just about coupling and having amazing climaxes, in my opinion, love also plays a big part. Over the past eighteen months, I have witnessed Christy’s and Greg’s love for each other develop into a wonderful, honest and deep love for each other and I have encouraged it. After all, he is the one who she has chosen to give her body to, so why shouldn’t she have deep feelings for him. The love that she has for me has been nurtured over a long period of time and that is rock solid, so allowing her the freedom to have a second love for her boyfriend is, surely, a good thing.

HI Gary I think your post was so beautiful!