Bummed out

Thought had wife talked into it she said no way to immoral At first she was telling me at her she was telling me if she went this route that it would be more than just a physical connection n could cost marriage but seemed onboard if I wanted it. Today was a big no. I’m a quad so I just wanted her experience thing since was virgin when first met. So was very limited on things. She’s never been seeded n I wanted her experience that too. Oh well maybe another time