Reply To: Stop Cuckolding – back to earlier relationship

Well Loxi, first of all we are not all from English speaking countries, I’m from Denmark so don’t worry about language.

Assuming you ask to get a serious answer, I think you can – or should be able to – go back to monogamy any time one of you want this. A real marriage is founded on respecting and caring about each other, and saying “no way back” is not aligning with this.

How did you get into cuckolding? Assuming with fantasies from you and her that turns out to be so fascinating you wanted to try. But only after serious conversations and considerations what it would mean to your marriage?

I think the way you get into the game is the same way you get out. Talk about it with your wife, explain to her why you want to alter your lifestyle and if she’s your true life companion she will respect your reasons the same way she respected your reasons to go into the game.

We had been “in and out” in the game several times during the past years due to health and stress issues, and even though my wife enjoys the freedom to fuck others (better endowed men) than me, she would quit in a moment if I asked for it.

Thinking your wife is under the “cock spell” and doesn’t want to quit her lover will not be true in a real marriage.

Go talk to your wife and sort things out. Life is not static, who knows what you want in 6 months, 6 years? What should remain is your commitment to each other