I am not someone with a lot of experience in the lifestyle, but based on what you are writing here, you may have to be very patient in order for your wife to get ‘on board’ with the idea. You don’t say how long you’ve been together, or if your wife has had many (or any) partners before you. If I were you, I would put that idea ‘on hold’ for now, and focus on trying to make your marriage a happy one. Leave the ‘cuckold’ stuff for your private ‘spank bank’ time. I know it’s probably not what you most wanted to hear, but the fact is that is no ‘magic spell’ for getting a wife to change her mind about being shared. Either she likes the idea, doesn’t like it, or is some kind of ‘neutral’ ground (i.e. might be open to it). The best you can hope for, in the long run, is that her mindset switches from ‘doesnt like the idea’ to ‘I could be open to it, after all’.
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