Reply To: Can you believe this?

You wanted a porn movie made specifically for you but you it sounds like you were lazy. Who took the pictures? Who’s job was it to set up the camera? Who picked the bull and did you vet him? Make sure he respected you and your wishes?

Safe sex is not just use a condom but also vet the guy by checking STD test results, ideally by looking at the results on line – either with him or in his lab account. Well, that is the ideal. Option 2 is to trust what he says. Condoms are only about 97% effective.

Your wife might not be the sharpest tool in the shed when it comes to controlling sex. Frankly, it’s hard for women to control if a condom is used or if it used correctly. It’s easy for a guy to pull it off without the woman knowing. And women get carried away easily and often don’t pay attention once the action starts.

If there was agreement with this bull and he broke the rules then cross him off the list for future play, and if you know anyone else considering him let them know.

You should be prepared for things to go wrong like this went, or be there to make sure the guy follows instructions until you learn to trust him. Yes, your wife screwed up by getting carried away. But the blame for YOU not getting what you wanted goes 3 ways and much of it is on you. You sound like you want to be an Alpha cuck. Well, if you are the alpha cuck then you have to do the work.take control and you can’t point fingers.

If you want better movies, invest in cameras and set up the cameras yourself. If you can’t be in the room then look into remote control. Better yet, get to know the Bull and make sure you can trust him to respect your limits. Then he can hit the record button for you, and keep the condom on until you decide it can come off.