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    • Aj
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        February 21, 2024 at 3:14 pm
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        #40851

        The wife got invited out by a girlfriend who is a swinger, she heard we are looking to try cuckolding and she wants to help.

        Reading the site, a first date/night out hints at the goal of touching another cock and maybe some kissing.

        Any good goals or milestones she can try and hit without going to far and making her uncomfortable for the first time?

        Trying to help get her out of the Mom/wife mode and guide her comfortably to cuckolding. She is willing, and thinks it maybe fun as long as we follow the other rules mentioned no sex and such.

        Im thinking of adding, get a phone number from a guy she is sexually attracted too.. any other fun but moderate goals for a newbie? 🙂

      • Chr1s
          March 21, 2024 at 5:02 am
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          #40936

          Don’t try and orchestrate it. Let her do what SHE wants at HER own pace.
          Have confidence she will make the right choices at the right time.

        • Bull
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            May 20, 2024 at 8:25 pm
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            #41073

            I agree with Chris about letting her go at her own pace. Letting her rediscover being appreciated as an attractive woman is important. However, if she is just at a singles bar or something like that you might want to have a discussion about ground rules especially as it relates to safety and discretion. Now, if her friend is taking her to a swing lifestyle meet and greet that is a little different as she will (hopefully) be with people who appreciate discretion and where she can experience some attention with consideration.
            Just my opinion-but I think you are on the right track

          • Rigel Orion
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              March 10, 2025 at 8:12 am
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              #83385

              Aj, how have things been with your wife? I wich my wife had a girlfriend like that.

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