Reply To: What Is It Like To Be Cuckolded?

We were both 35, had been married for 10 years, and my new job brought us to the UK and we bought a house in a little village in Berkshire. We got to know our new neighbour, a retired fireman, widowed 4 years ago and soon became great friends.

It all developed from there and on the one side my job which required me to be away from home and my family for many months at a time and the need to have someone to look after my family and my wife while I was gone, so quite naturally our neighbour, who by then had become a very good and trusted friend, became our guardian and also my wife’s live in and stay at our home stand-in and live-in husband, who truly looked after our family while I was gone.

Both he and my wife always kept me updated, in those times by letters and phone calls and when I returned we spent a lot of time together and we also enjoyed many wonderful moments for the three of us in our bedroom and he would come round during the day while I was at work and our children at school and virtually every weekend he would be a welcomed guest and spent the weekend with us, joining all activities, and the nights with us in our bedroom.

Making and enjoy love as a married threesome became quite naturally our normal lifestyle and we all enjoyed it very much and my wife Charo took to it as naturally like the proverbial duck to water.

Until today we both feel blessed as this did not turn out to be a short-lived affair like our previous holiday encounters during our vacations at naturist resorts, which we all also enjoyed very much, but our relationship with Alan lasted over 10 years and was as exciting and trusting and fulfilling for all of as till the end, as it was at the beginning.

It was a new work assignment for which we moved to a different continent that brought it an end with regards to our physical proximity, but until today we manage to visit Alan at least once a year or he comes to visit us, and we find the time to rekindle our relationship and reaffirm our close bond.

During our time in Berkshire my wife enjoyed another pregnancy and we became proud parents of our youngest son. We both have always called him our love child and we both know that we had long pondered the idea and took our time to reach our decision and confirm that it really was what we both wanted.

We were all very excited when my wife had her pregnancy confirmed and we all toasted each other with a glass of champagne, Alan and Charo in Berkshire and me in Melbourne, Australia were I had been working for the last 9 months, and I was so proud to become a Dad for the third time and that I soon would be home again and enjoy the beautiful sight of my happy pregnant wife and could enjoy again my long chats with Alan, who I so valued as a good friend, who looked after my family and my wife as if they were his own, and my wife and I were sure that he had deserved our full loyalty and the expression of our honest and truly felt gratefulness by fully and genetically welcoming him into our family and show him our deep feelings and how much we appreciated his support and full contribution that he has shown to me, my family and my wife over such a long time.

It is impossible to count how many times he has provided my wife with his much desired insertion of manly genes, which she truly deserved and enjoys to receive as often as possible. Charo and Alan have lived together as husband and wife and shared a marital bed over large stretches during those ten years when work assignments meant I had to be abroad for many months. It was only right that we kept welcoming him in our bedroom when I was back. And we all enjoyed our time and activities together.

Charo had always made it clear to me that with any activity that we both agreed she would always insist on welcoming any lover, even on the first night, in a fully natural way, that as a catholic wife she would never accept anything that was not in line with her belief, and that both she and I would have to accept any outcome as it presented itself.

But with Alan it was simply the natural outcome that we all had wished for and desired, and we could not have been happier with the result.

Alan is the godfather of two of our children. We all love him and my wife keeps a very special place for him in her heart and in her most cherished memories.