My journey so far… am I on the path?

jnh said:

 

So… why am I writing all this?  Well, I'd like advice on several topics:

1. From what I've written, does it sound like I might have a *chance* at this lifestyle?
It's not really whether you (singular) have a chance at this, but rather whether you (as a couple) have a chance at this and I would say yes, you certainly do. 

2. How should I proceed?  I know I'll have to balance my desire “make this happen” with letting HER lead this.  I'd love to know ways to talk about it without sounding like I'm “pushing” it on her.  I want the thoughts in her head (planting seeds) but in as positive a way as possible.
Having improved your communication and being open now about your roles within the marriage is key. Your role of cuckold and her role as hotwife are perfect matches for the personalities you're now becoming more comfortable with.

3. Balancing my new found “submissive” side with the past.  I certainly don't look like a wimpy submissive – I'm a big guy with broad shoulders and she has always liked that about me.  I think if I get “too wimpy” with her, it would be a turn off.  I'm trying to figure out exactly how to proceed down this path of being “more submissive” both sexually and in day-to-day routines.  Any advice/hints from others who may have gone through this?
Let her determine what she wants – submit on her terms. 

4. I have had some bisexual experiences in my life that I have NEVER shared with her, even when she has asked “would you ever?” types of questions.  I just didn't think it would go over well at the time she asked.  So… should I tell her about these?  If so, when?  Seems like I should wait on these till I KNOW we're on that path and perhaps even until she has made “hints” in that direction.  I'm just not sure.
I'd say wait on that. 

I'm all ears.  Thanks for reading this novel.  I know it's very “tame” and probably boring compared to most.

Feel free to ask any questions… I certainly left out details that could help, because I didn't want it to be even LONGER than it already is. 🙂

I think that given she's told you in the past that she wished your penis had another 2″ on it opens the door to discussing that topic. You simply can't grow another 2″ and a 7″ penis sounds much more like what a woman of her attractiveness deserves than a 5″ one – so tell her that. You can open the talk by reliving some of your past, if you haven't already, and come clean about how it affected you then.. and how it's come full circle now.