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    • Madison.cpl
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        August 21, 2025 at 4:51 pm
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        I’ve written this response several times. Each time trying to edit it down from a lengthy essay on our marriage. Trying to stay within the “meat” of our story.
        If anyone wants the longer version or has questions, I would be happy to expand in private conversation.
        So here goes, hopefully, the final draft.
        I find that I have to respond to the messages and posts he has made here.

        I won’t rehash what David has posted or replied to in private messages.

        David is my rock. We’ve supported each other through heartache and pain. I couldn’t imagine a life without him.

        Dean is what David is to me in the physical sense.
        He’s my Marlboro Man. My bad boy. And I love him just as much as I love my husband. Differently.
        I know David hates to hear this but Dean has the stamina and technique that David never had.
        He doesn’t hesitate to bend me over the car on a evening drive. Put me on my knees in the parking lot of a club.
        He grabs my hair and guides me wherever he wants. He leaves red marks on my ass when I’ve been bad.
        Wobbly kneed after a hard night of sex.
        I have my sexual needs met and then some.
        And then I go back to my husband and live my domestic life.
        After careful thought and discussion with both, I have decided that to give Dean ownership. I will be on-call for certain situations.

        I also want him to own David and I as a couple. I’ve read an article on here that takes the porn aspect out of this and sets realistic standards to ownership.
        Dean has agreed to own me but we are still working out what it means to own David. Both men are heterosexual.
        But I kind of like the idea of David doing certain things to prove his submission to Dean.
        David is a bit hesitant too.

        I would love to hear honest and real situations from those of you who have chosen this in your marriage.
        I would especially love to hear from the wives on how this has affected their marriage.

      • Kevin123
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          August 21, 2025 at 10:01 pm
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          #94800

          Hi Linda, your post really hit home—David sounds like an incredible partner, and it’s beautiful how you two balance love and this lifestyle. I’m the cuckold husband to Priya, my wife of 14 years, and we’ve got two kids. Three years into this dynamic, with her four regular bulls and 60+ hookups, I’ve gone from jealous to loving every second of it. Priya’s a dominant hotwife, and like you with Dean, she thrives on the intense physical connection with her lovers. They bring something I don’t—stamina, dominance, that raw energy you describe with Dean bending you over or leaving marks. It’s thrilling to hear you embrace that with Dean while cherishing David as your rock.

          Priya loves bringing her bulls home, and my role is to greet them, serve drinks, clean up their cum from her pussy and ass, and even suck her bulls’ dicks while locking eyes with her. That little smile she gives me during it? It’s electric—gets me hard instantly. It was awkward at first, as a straight guy, but her pleasure drives me. Your idea of Dean “owning” you and David as a couple sounds similar to how Priya guides me to submit to her bulls’ dominance—not sexually for me, but in service to her happiness. It’s taken time, but it’s strengthened our bond. The humiliation fuels my desire, and Priya says it’s made her feel more empowered and loved, knowing I’m all in for her needs.

          For you and David, exploring Dean’s ownership could deepen your dynamic, like it has for us. Priya says this lifestyle lets her feel desired and free while knowing I’m her safe haven. My advice? Keep talking openly with David about what his submission to Dean might look like—maybe small acts like serving Dean or respecting his time with you, keeping it non-sexual since they’re both straight. It took me time to embrace Priya’s bulls dominating our space, but clear boundaries helped. How does David feel about specific acts of submission? And Linda, how do you see this ownership enhancing your marriage long-term?

          I’d love to hear more about how you balance the emotional and physical sides with both men. If you’re open to private chat, Priya might share her perspective as a wife—she’s not big on forums but loves connecting one-on-one. Thanks for being so real about this!

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