Want help getting my wife into it

You’re right.  She is hot!

@mcb95x said:
I would like someone to msg my wife on yahoo and try and get her to flirt and eventually cuckold me.  you can msg her on yahoo, her id is pretty_christty .  can give u details to help u get her talkin   shes thin n very hot.  u can message me at yahoo at mcb95x

So, what you’d like is either:

• someone else to do all the work for you so you don’t have to risk exposing your fantasy to her, or
• some jerk off material to stroke to

If you want your wife to cuckold you, man up enough to communicate with her or just keep wanking, because a couple who can’t openly communicate on this topic will become divided by it rather than become bonded through it.

Hi, we are in the same boat as I am looking for the same thing.  But if you want I can go first.

i need help too

Some problems with this MCB and largely because I think to message this very beautiful woman out of the blue could constitute harassment. As Luvr says, it is hardly taking your responsibilities seriously, even though any right minded bull would feel aroused by a lady like this. I’ve not met many males who can persuade a woman to think or feel in a particular way by messaging. Instead, you have to start making opportunities for her to decide what she wants to do. The ethos of cuckolding (I’d claim) is to help really hot women, decide whether they wish to fuck with better men and once that is brewing to show that you will be devoted to her whilst she goes on doing that. You have to take the risk that your messages will be misread and that she will dump you because you have surrendered interest in her. I’d show her Luvr’s guides, admit that you are turned on by the idea of her having choices about this. Notice-turned on by her choices-not getting her off with someone. Don’t pester, give her a note to carry in that handbag so she can re read it or use it when she pleases. It reads something like this…

Chrissie darling,

You are the hottest and most beautiful brunette that I have ever seen. The way you dress, the way you talk, the way you move, the way you smell, are so perfect. What I said earlier about accepting things if you wished to take other men for sex was meant. It was sincerely said. I accept that should you do so, it may be private, that you will chose the man and decide when to tell me. I accept too that he may become a regular partner, and that you will teach me to share. This is not simply a male voyeuristic thing. Very beautiful and confident women should have freedom as well as the devotion of their regular partner. You are simply not an average woman. If he doubts these matters, and is hesitant, then show him this note, that you are a woman who is dearly loved but who insists on choice as well. In sex things are not always equal, I have accepted that you deserve more and will love you devotedly should you chose to exercise a desire. No more chat now though, ask me questions as and when you please. I will be honest about my feelings. love MCB

Will it happen- we cannot know. But I will say this, even the offer of opportunity, plus continued devotion to a beautiful woman gives her a real frisson. She walks as though the earth barely touches the soles of her feet.

@mcb95x said:

I would like someone to msg my wife on yahoo and try and get her to flirt and eventually cuckold me.  you can msg her on yahoo, her id is pretty_christty .  can give u details to help u get her talkin   shes thin n very hot.  u can message me at yahoo at mcb95x

Your wife is quite attractive, looks very similar to my wife. I need some help geting my wife into the cuck lifestyle but I think you wll have to do it yourself I am afraid. Good luck.

Ya I agree with the above. My bf was embarrassed to bring up the subject to me even though I was far more comfortable with my sexuality than he was. Nothing he ever said would shock me, but he was still embarrassed. He’d brought it up to his ex-wife who shot him down and told him to go to a sex-addict AA type thing, he’d been through therapy and his therapist told him not to even be in a relationship because of his telling her about his fantasies. He had told me his therapist had told him to end the relationship because he had fantasies he couldn’t control and that he didn’t want to “drag me through them.” When he told me I replied with this:

“Ok, I will give you the space you need to figure out what I mean to you, if you want me in your life or not. When you’re thinking, remember that there is nothing you can say or do that will make me love you less.”

He then told me specifically about what fantasies he had, MFM, being with another couple and humiliation. During the time I had given him I thought about what he’d told me and I couldn’t understand why he thought it was so difficult… I thought to myself “He wants to see me have sex with another man, and have him be there too, and he wants me to humiliate him… whats so wrong with that? I’d love to do that!” ?!?! …Until I put the pieces together about how he got shot down by his ex-wife and his therapist. So at the end of the time I had given him, he didn’t want to be with out me, and I certainly didn’t want to be without him so I said “Lets do this. If you don’t like it we can always stop. We can’t undo what happens, but if at any time you are uncomfortable in the wrong way, just say so and it ends. But you need to experience this and I want to be the person to experience it with you.”

We have never been closer. The courage it took for him to open up to me was highly respectable and I love him all that much for it. We are still new to the lifestyle, but so far things couldn’t be better. Honesty is the best policy my friend. If you want to explore the lifestyle, include your wife, be honest with her, share with her and don’t try to trick her into it. That’ll backfire like nobody’s business.

I find it to be a perfectly legitimate way to kickstart the cuckold dynamic, It can be really hard to tell Your significant other these things, I feel the use of a bit of trickery may be just what is needed, after all the Wife may not know she might like this attention…. or had the opportunity to explore flirting outside of the relationship….Flirting that may open new feelings and desires within the wife…It will give the potential cuck the room to observe her reactions ,to note changes …assesing the potential… possibly giving the cuck more confidence to touch on the subject with her…..I feel if You want it enough there is no problem approaching it in this way.

Just dont be surprised if she doesn’t respond how you expect her to. In my opinion, cuckoldry is meant to open up lines of communication, bring the couple closer together emotionally and be built on mutual agreements. Im not sure starting the lifestyle in deception is going to take you where you ultimately want to go… if my boyfriend/husband manipulated and tried to deceive me he’d be out the door so fast he’d never know what hit him. But thats just my opinion.