When people hear the word non-monogamy, the first thing they think about is sex. And rightly so, Non-monogamy is the exact opposite of monogamy. Monogamy is defined as “the habit of having only one mate at a time.” What is a habit? The word habit is defined as “a settled or regular tendency or practice, especially one that is hard to give…[Read more]

A group in Vegas asked me to share my perspective on alternative relationships. The couples, in their 20s to their 70s, were interested in various aspects of consensual non-monogamy, especially cuckolding, and wanted to know how I defined a successful alternative relationship.

After a moment’s thought, I said, “People look up to and praise a…[Read more]