Honestly, I know it’s not for everyone and the cost is great, but getting a custom fitted cage it totally, the way to go y’all. It fits and is comfortable If worn a little or a lot it’s great.

We keep it secret from everyone but there is an understanding that if she is out with another man and is seen by a friend/relative, I have her back 100%. She will not have to worry about taking the “shame” or “blame” because I would intervene and say it’s cool with me and I’m into it. I’m too old now to worry about what other people think about me anyway.