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So we had a person in our friend group figure out about our cuckolding situation.
Happened due to a computer left on. It was an accident, there were pictures. I was careless.
So, after the awkwardness subsided the next day, I chatted him up. The most I got out the prior day was that it was consenual, and to please keep it under wraps. My fiance is less worried about him knowing than me, but it still makes me heartrate increase lol.
Explained the cuckolding thing, he was really cool, apologized for opening the tab, seems to be very respectful towards the whole thing and non judgemental. It was awkward to talk about, but it felt good to have one less person to feel like I’m hiding from. Our bull is a longtime friend of ours, who has always been our bull. He is a part of the friend group, so the discovery has an extra layer of.. oh fuck to it.
My group is pretty solid on the “got your back” thing. And he definately picked up on the “please man… Take this to the grave” thing.
I guess I am sorta posting to see what others have gone through as far as friends or family finding out. Was it a big deal? Were you surprised with their reactions? How did your partners feel? Were you able to continue your relationship with those friends after you got outted?
The fear of my sexuality and the intimate details of my relationship being discovered… Worries me .. probably more than it should… Mostly because it’s nobodies business. And this definately lies in the “alt” realm, which isn’t always easy for others to understand.
Would love to hear your takes.
Am I being squeemish? Or is this a pretty par for the course reaction for a cuck?
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tully
Your reaction seems healthy, normal… I think the ones who tell everyone make it hard on themselves as well.
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cucky
It happens very often and specially when your wife have a long time lover, friends and people see clues and figure it out, things like her lover is always at any reunion of party, birthdays, New Years etc, the way they interact and look at each other, etc. your wife close friends talk to her about her lover and eventually they will know, my wife don’t tell but she won’t hide either, last new years party they dissapear for more than an hour, they were upstairs, I think must people noticed. I’m use to it and they think I’m nice.
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Voyeurcuck
My wife’s friends (ladies) knows she has permission to flirt and even more when she’s out with them. I was not clear in the beginning, but they started asking questions, and one night one even saw my wife disappeared to the restrooms at a club with a guy to give him a blowjob. The friend is also knowing me, so we decided the next day my wife better tell her it was “with permission” so she didn’t felt she was witnessing my wife cheating that night.
The other ladies has taken it real cool, in fact I think they envy my wife a little. I’m not sure – but I suppose – they have told their husbands too, but none of them has ever mentioned a word to me.
I think it depends a lot on how your friends are and how morally open they are. And another thing is what they promise to keep for themselves when they are sober, what happens when the night comes and they get drunk and “has a fun story to tell”?
My recommendation is to keep it secret when possible, and only tell if and what is needed
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