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I do recognize a lot about what LUVR explains in this topic.

When my wife had her first expereinces with other men we both saw there was something missing in the dynamics between Simone and the man she had sex with. It was less intense for the both of us. When she met Ramon there was an instant spark between them and a dat followed quickly. My wife told me after her first date with Ramon, that even they did not had sex that night that she knew that she wanted Ramon in her life, as her lover/bull as he had told her he had expereince with other married couples. Slowly they spent more and more time together, and he was a great sounding board for any issues that she was having personally about her love for him but also regarding my development as her cuckold.

Now the thave been together for over 3 years and the intensity has grown over time. Twice a week he is at our place and stays the night, Simone goes to his place also twice a week for 1on1 time and she stays over most times as well. They have deepend their bonds, I support were I can, been pussy free for over 3,5 years and in chastity 24/7 even longer. It is not always easy to be a cuckold, I can get emotional when i see them so in love. But it also very exciting and I do see it makes my wife so happy.

Therefore last weekend my wife got 50 on sunday. I had booked a two night weekend trip the first night we had dinner and we cuddled in bed confirming our love. The second evening as a surprise for her I invited Ramon, her lover/bull. I had plannned it all for them to have dinner in the room … him staying the night so she could wake up on the morning of her birthday in the arms of her lover. In the morning I slipped into the room very quitly to see them wake up and have a long love making session. After they made love in the morning they kept kissing and cuddling while I clenaed them both. They were so inot each other they started over again so I arranged a late check out. Ramon told us later he had packed extra clothing so he went with us to our place to spend the evening and night as well with Simone.

To see your wife so happy is very arousing and emotional to see them so into each other all day. But I also knew it would be the best gift from me for Simone.

So please know it will not always be easy to be a cuckold but it will be ver rewarding as you know how to play your role in the dynamics.

Hi Luvr,

As a cuckold I’m still have sex with my wife. I will not allow her bull any say in our sex life. I maybe a submissive to her having sex with other men but, she knows if she cuts me off from regular sex with her it will end are marriage. I know being a cuckold is difficult but, I had to draw the line some where.

This is a wonderful blog, and should serve as a perfect primer for aspiring wives! It really spoke to me and our experiences. I hope you start posting more again Luvr!

I’m really glad to see this article. My wife and I have had a cuckold marriage for more than 20 years, and this is the aspect that I have had the most difficulty with. I had known about cuckolding since I was about 15 and even at that age I knew this was something that I wanted to explore. Years later, a few years after getting married, I brought it up with her and we discussed it for a few months before agreeing to try it. We were both excited by the prospect of her taking lovers.

So with all of that time and the research that I had done, I thought I was very prepared. But as her first relationship changed from just physical to more personal, my emotions couldn’t keep up. I was already thinking of her and them nonstop, and then I began to have bouts of intense jealousy mixed with intense excitement. I didn’t understand it at all. At times I felt like a complete basket case. And worse, I felt I had no right to feel jealous since this was my idea. So I kept my feelings to myself for the most part which, I discovered later, was the wrong thing to do.

When I finally admitted to my wife that I was having problems with jealousy, often mixed with excitement, I expected her to get mad and act defensively. But instead, she acted out of love and told me that she was so sorry that this was difficult for me and she completely understood. This led to more and more open discussions. It turns out that part of her was glad and excited that it was difficult for me. I was stunned at first, but then realized that to her my intense emotions meant that I was very focused on her.

Since then my wife has had several boyfriends in our marriage. In her last and longest relationship they love one another deeply. Maybe even more importantly, I’ve been able not only to support her in this but I’ve also acted from a place of love and I’ve encouraged her. Talking about how we each feel has been key. The “good” emotions and the “bad” emotions. So even though this was the most difficult aspect for me, I am convinced that this, and yes cuckolding In general, has led to a closer, more caring, and more trustful marriage.

I view this as a great guide for perhaps one of the final stages of truly embracing a cuckold identity, which is your wife catching feelings for a boyfriend. I’ve been preparing myself for this for multiple years and this gave me a lot to think about, so thank you LUVR!

First off, I want to say, great article and great blog, of all the blogs on the topic, this is probably my favorite. However, I think the way you describe cuckolding sometimes is very rigid and up to your own standards, because I’ve seen plenty of (real) cuckold couples on Reddit who do it in so many different ways, some cucks are completely denied sure, but some still have sex either after the bull or at the same time as the bull, in some cases it’s more like wife sharing. As for chastity, it’s only used by a small minority of cuckold couples, and it becomes very difficult to find a proper fitting when the cuck has a big dick, and it can even be dangerous. I experimented with chastity on my own, out of curiosity and injured one of my testicles. Thankfully it wasn’t too serious but there is pain, and it will take me a few weeks to fully recover with medication. And going into it, I wasn’t aware of this risk because anybody who discusses the topic on the chastity subreddit gets their post deleted and their account banned, they don’t want people to know.

With that being said, I do agree that cuckolding is a great lifestyle and that it doesn’t matter if the cuck has a big dick, and that a man being submissive is a good enough reason to be a cuck, but there is a lot of flexibility in how it can be done, and it all depends on each couple’s preferences. The main key feature they all share is the fact that the wife is allowed to have multiple sex partners while the cuck is not, but after that, nothing is set in stone.

Also, in response to your article titled “Submission”, I want to say, there are genuinely dominant women who don’t need or want a dominant man in their life. There have been plenty of documented cases of female led relationships (FLR) where cuckolding isn’t involved, in fact, most FLRs do not involve cuckolding, simply because most women are not comfortable with promiscuity or juggling multiple relationships at once.

But there are many submissive women who will test their partner’s dominance by trying to provoke him, to see how he will react. If she finds he is a pushover in the relationship or he is submissive in bed, then she will not be fully satisfied and might look elsewhere to fulfill that need, that’s where cuckolding comes into play. However, it’s not accurate to assume that every woman is like that. Not every relationship has a leader, many are in fact equal.

And that’s mainly the reason why it’s so difficult to become a cuckold, because although many women wish their husband would let them sleep with other men, there are also many women who would never want that and some who would even be creeped out if the man asks that. The fact that every woman is so different in this way is what makes it so difficult for men to find a cuckoldress. It’s generally a lot of trial and error.

But I do agree with your many of your points, like the idea that a cuck isn’t defined by physical attributes, I’m not a cuck yet, but I’m aiming for that, and I’m tall, good looking and well endowed, but the main reason why I’m interested in this lifestyle is because I’ve been very into femdom ever since puberty, and it’s more exciting than sex. Due to my femdom fetishes (some of which I’ve had the luck of experiencing for a real with a play partner), if I were to become a cuck, the pros would completely outweigh the cons, and in other words, it would be foolish of me to not take that leap, if I meet a woman who is into it.