yes its not intuitive finding way around. not that many Uk users though this was my starting point for looking at lifestyle. still trying ot get wife into this but uphill is hard work lol do enjoy life.

My wife and I have been fantasizing it for a long time. She has agreed to look, but finding the right guy for her has been a challenge. She used to get so excited when fantasizing about another man! We have sex once, maybe twice in the last three years. She maybe weening me off having sex with her, not sure.