Reply To: Wife admits she loves us “differently”

I am sorry to say, but you start to lose her. That is ok, that she choose him for sex but it is entirely wrong that she is on the same platform with him to humiliate you and spend the weekend with him without your agreement. You are living in a family, not in slavery. It was not the original deal that he becomes your superior. I think it is time for you to show him his place. Some contra humiliation would carve down a little bit his overgrown ego. Define him as only sextoy infront of your wife would help to mark the limits.