Reply To: Cheating

Jerry here. I was cheated on and I’m thankful that she did it, because it made me realize the truth that I was not “lover” material. I also discovered that when I thought about my lovely wife giving herself to a “real” man, I was very excited, which of course confused me. After telling her that I knew and asked her to keep seeing him, I learned just what my true place was and I’ve embraced that “place” ever since, and that was 17 years ago. If she hadn’t cheated on me I wouldn’t be a cuckold now and I’m pretty sure that eventually we would have parted ways because of my lack of sexual abilities. Cathy is a VERY sexual being and I was killing that part of her, so now she’s very happy, I’m happy and her lover is happy – It’s a win/win/win for everyone.