Reply To: How do cuckold fantasies affect the wife’s desire to have children w/ husband?

I think there’s no single effect. It can increase, decrease, or leave it unchanged depending on the person, the meaning she attaches to the fantasy, and how the relationship handles it. Things that seem to matter if the fantasy is purely erotic role-play or reflects a real desire to have sex with others. Also how strongly someone links parenting to sexual exclusivity and couple-bonding.

My wife and I started cuckolding after we already had kids. Since then her attitude shifted. She said if we’d started earlier she could’ve imagined continuing the lifestyle while pregnant, and more recently told me that if I were infertile she’d be open to discussing natural insemination by a bull. We agreed to not have more kids, but she is still fertile and not on birth control, so this change still scared me a bit to be honest. But we’ve been on this journey for years now and it’s a natural progress to get more comfortable with things over time.